I agree that children need stability and not just quality time but quantity time. I also believe they need a mother and father that can give them that. Children are a blessing regardless if they are your own biological children, adopted, or you to foster them. I'm the father of three. My wife had two of them already when we got married. They are from different fathers that didn't want anything to do with them. I loved my wife and I loved her boys and made that choice to raise them as my own. Lastly, I don't think what is going on in the world right now should play into the decision at all. This world we live in is always going to have problems. Always has and always will.