The word "Charisma" is that character or quality that is in you, which attract people to you. It is one influencing factor to everybody. As a matter of fact, it is all about character. As character is to a man's great influencing power to controlling his environment. So the flywheel is to the engine of a car. By its force, it can carry one through times of temptation, exerts a guiding and controlling influence over ones life. Owing to this fact, when a man loses his character, definitely he has lost everything. This is because character determines the destiny of everyman. And if a man possesses nothing else, but a good quality character he can still be of service to himself, friends, and family and to the world at large.
Obviously, no matter how far you've gone in life and how successful and grown you are, whether in relationship, courtship, companionship, it all depends on your character (i.e the way and manner you act and react to situations surrounding your command). Guide your character with all tenacity, if you want to be admired, loved, cherished, and live in safety among your peers. Ideally, you learn to understand that the foundation of a good character is not built by lectures, but by bricks of good example laid day by day, and no matter the quality of your credentials, it takes quality character to build your destiny. Who you are is more important than where you are. Arthur Friedman said, "Men of genius are admired: men of wealth are envied: men of power are feared but only men of character are trusted". Obviously, when wealth is lost, nothing is lost; when health is lost, something is lost, but when character of a man is lost. As a matter of fact, how is your character influencing those around you and the amount of people that love you.
