My perspective on Date outings.
Going on a date should be like intense discussion about knowing each other, emotionally, psychologically, educationally and spiritually and yes spiritually, these shouldn't come in a form of mockery if incase you're better than the other.
Be matured in talking and reasoning, I do hear some funny talks about seeing a religious person going on a date and it now becomes a sour talk, like?? So pastors, prophets or apostles not go on a date?.a responsible young man can't go on a date because he's scared of what other people will say. . How funny that sounds, dating has been painted as immorality and that's not the main reason for going on one.
Let me break down my perspective of how dates should be.
Mind you I've been to just a few, with my loved ones, I have taken my parents on a date. Outings like a date isn't just a romantic meetings or outing with a potential lover, it can be a children's outing pee arranged by the father.
When you hear "I took her on a date or he took me out on a date" please leave out sexual sentiments from our thoughts, two business partners can go on a date for personal business transactions.
I want to correct some If not alot ofindset that sees DATING as a food like meeting. Hahaha so when there's no food dating shouldn't hold right?
Why can't going on a date also be an adventurous kind or a funfair park gatherings. Aint disputing the facts that there shouldn't be food or snacks to be eaten but I think the main reason should be the discussion or emotional transaction among the two of you if its a potential partner to be.
Do you know married couples also go on a DATE?. Not everything must be sexual thoughts.
Let's learn to be an inquisitive person, I understand doing things the real and right way will most times bring discrimination or talk down, well keep doing it, you can't please the world.
I really hope this wide spread mindset that when someone says he went out on a date with the opposite gender the "did you have intimacy with her? " kind or question don't sprung out. There nee to be a total cleansing.
To me i think date outings should be a serious and matured kind of outing that's will result to acquired mental upgrade, whom you find peace with(emotionally), productive ideas are being discussed, foods can be secondary depends on the kind of outings, maybe not for the adventurous type. With this the relationship become stronger, closer and understandable by comprehending which is also very important.
These takes time, not a thing to be rushed upon. Dates outing can be done before and after companionship, old adults do go on a date too.
No matter how many times I would go out on a date that each outing will not be recorded experience there will a different pattern coming from me to the opposite gender in form mind blowing ideas on life's growth, what we can make out of tomorrow despite it isn't promised but we believe and hope for it. orientating each other on your views and take regarding problem solving skills.
Just be realistic, visionist, and matured. That alone sets you up to standard.
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