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Hello beloved, trust my writings meets you well, I pondered upon the two major characteristics of behavior called the introverted and extroverted types. I would digress the introverted kinds for now, so common let's discuss it.
This writings isn't aimed for degrading rather a way for diversifying and balancing both being an introvert and extrovert.
Being an introverted person, it's a normality to be unnoticed or let me say your presence isn't felt in any place you find yourselves, maybe because you just want to maintain a low life.
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Also it's in their nature to live a simple lifestyle, staying in an inclusive environment where they don't want anything to interrupt their personality, according to my few discussions I had with some of them this is what they have in mind. They just want to mind their businesses.
They immediately get comfortable around those that are like minded and their spirit matches and maybe can go wild around them, chuckles. Upon sighting the "so quiet person" playing and laughing out loud now makes you think are they really introvert ? And Yes, they just met a like-minded person.
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However there's this one problem I found out about the introverted kind and it hurt, cause a lot of frustration and permit me to say "lead some to their early grave " speaking up and creating that energy for communication.
An Introvert person dont like sharing ideas that might help solve a critical problem, in relation to personal issues that's a burden to them, they don't share with others not minding if the solution lies in the other person's idea.
Life an become tougher, it can be in a phase of pain and frustration or scars and regrets, some other things can be involved causing anxiety, depression and yet it is kept all to themselves. This is a bad idea the way I see it, I can understand that not everybody would render a solution but at least voice out to the right people when necessary.
Theres always a bad mindset voicing in the head echoing to not talk about it and even thinking ending it all is better. For what reason? Speak and be free.
We've heard and read of people's life just ended just like that pertaining this introverted lifestyle taking too EXTREME.
Something was wrong somewhere, something was burdening this young energetic fellow but yet refuse to voice out, then the next thing we hear is " we lost him" without any external factor.
Like I said before at the initial of this write up isn't to degrade and make mockery or speak against introverts but to let them know it can be balanced if not stopped. Please and please create that system of communicating to people who are interested at least for a helpful advice or hand.
A word of encouragement can go a very long way in times like that.
Having a Mentor is also very important, not just a mentor by name but a understanding person that isn't static but dynamic, that can put his or her self of once shoe to feel how it is.
So dear introvert I hope this realign your thoughts now, go out there and make relevant and valuable friends.