Greetings everyone!
Forgiving someone is one of the hardest part for me. As everyone character is different every person thinks different, everyone of us are build different. I mean everyone of us react different in every situation. Well I think everyone of us has face such kind of situation where either we need to forgive someone of other person need to forgive us. But everything depends on the situation and even on the person how he responds and react to it. Well I have literally so many people who I need to forgive but I never because they have hurt me in some of the way.
Either someone people will now call it as ego, arrogant, etc. But all I call this as a self respect and distance from the people. It's more good to explain someone and sort the people or situation instead make sure you leave that person or eliminate people from your life. Well I know some people can't move on or some people cannot forget the situation which they have faced. It's hard to move on and that pain really kills from inside it's like you cannot think the other things just because of that which you get hurt.
I have clearly said that it's hard for me to let go things which happens with me. I can't forget that situation easily unless and until I get myself satisfy that yeah! now it's okay that person should be forgive. Unless and until I get my ego satisfy or that person does not feel his mistake what he has done to me, I can't forgive them. No matter how hard I feel for that person or how close he is to me I don't give a shit to my feelings. Self respect and ego comes ahead then feelings.
Some people are cold and does not react much they just accept the situation and move. But as I said everyone reacts different it's not like every person can move on but the pain literally kills the mind it distract the person and also lead to the depression and anxiety. But whatever I deal with myself keep the things to you and I am just trying to control the thoughts and feelings. I don't care about how bad I feel, ego should be way more higher then your feelings. This is what I think some people cannot control on themselves.
It happens everyone of us are getting anger in either way without noticing. It's okay to feel weak or anger anything but keep things only up to you. Don't try to express that kind of feelings to the people. Well all I think is keep things up to you. I know it's wrong you should express but in the right person with whom you can trust a lot. I have got hurt by my close friend and now I know things will never get same again, but every time we meet we stays like nothing happen. And I can never forgive him.
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