I think people are mixing things up in this world ooo or is it that things have changed and they no longer counts or mean again? I'm reading a lot of things that I do not understand again , what do we call friend? I thought your friend is someone you love, someone you have seen as family ,is it that I'm wrong? Those some people called friends are not treated like friends, I think some are classmates, some are colleague at works, some are just neighbors,that is they live in the same street, some just attend the same church and they come out and call themselves friends. That's not friend.
People forgot that choosing someone to be special to you comes with responsibility. If you choose someone as your friend, you have to be responsible for it, If someone choose you as friend and you know she isn't yours, pls let her know you are just coursemate or roommate or neighbor,introduce her as the person she is to you to people,let such person know his or her stand.
But you coming out to say you didn't have time to talk to your friend for weeks or months, pls that's not friendship. Nowadays I see people say, they last talk to the person they call their friends months ago but they love her or him in their heart,they have just being busy. That's why some also don't contact again after they get married saying marriage has been tough,they are always busy. The truth is the love is not there,you just talk to that person whenever you need them, that's not friendship.
A friend that doesn't communicate well with me, that goes mute with me just bcos he or she is going through some struggles is not my friend . Yes, bcos when I choose friend, I share everything with them, when I'm happy, when I'm sad, when I'm going through hard times, I make out time out of my busy schedule bcos I always have such person in my heart and I will surely wants to know how he or she is doing, A friend that cannot do such in return is not my friend.
I stand against saying you love someone but you were really busy and can't find time for communication. There is no love, there is no friendship. No matter how far,how many levels you find yourself , don't be to busy to check up on someone you can a friend and don't be friends with a friend that can't check up on you as well.
