Hello, dear Steemians!
Our thought process is an interesting and layered institution that is sometimes difficult to explain or analyze. Questions are an important part of that process, and a deciding factor of how we approach our problems and solve them.
What are the things that you question every day? How do you define and justify the things that happen to you? Questions play a huge role in how success is achieved when it comes to our beliefs, our decisions, and our performance in doing our tasks and taking action for our goals.
There is a famous quote attributed to Anthony Robbins which reads, “Quality questions create a quality life. Successful people ask better questions, and as a result, they get better answers.”
Most of our thoughts everyday are expressions of opinion rather than important questions, the answers to which could change our life forever. If we want to live a quality life, we need to make a habit of asking questions from ourselves.
These questions could be as simple as ‘How do I want to spend my time today?’ to more life-altering ones such as ‘How can I achieve my goal of learning a second language?’
Do not underestimate the power of asking these questions of yourself. If you turn this idea into practice, you will come to realize that suddenly, you are asking questions that are demanding actions from you that improve your life on small or large scales.
Even in relationships, the real chemistry appears when the two people involved decide to ask the hard questions of how well they interact with each other and what paradoxes set their characteristics and mentalities apart. Being prepared for such paradoxes can lead to a healthy and long-standing relationship.
The problem is not about the fact that people do not have the habit of asking questions of themselves. We actually do that. But how well we practice this idea is questionable on many levels.
For example, a lot of people fall prey to destructive ideas and ask questions that would hurt their development in life rather than improve it.
‘What is the point of doing that? Why should I bother when I clearly don’t stand a chance of achieving that?
Why is it always me?’ are all statements that may find their way to your thoughts in the form of questions.
But this tendency should not discourage us from asking questions. Einstein once said, “If I had an hour to solve a problem and my life depended on the solution, I would spend the first 55 minutes determining the proper question to ask… for once I know the proper question, I could solve the problem in less than five minutes.”
When we see successful people, we believe that they have accomplished great things because they have special gifts or are talented with high intelligence.
The truth is, most of the times successful people know how to think about the right question. Then they will try to find an answer to that and reach their goals.
If you are constantly wasting your chance of questions in your brain asking stuff like ‘Why am I depressed? Why do I not have any accomplishments?’ you will never get to the questions that you should ACTUALLY be asking of yourself.
Be mindful of the questions that you ask yourself. How are they going to benefit you? Will they solve anything? How closer will they get you to achieving what you want? These are all the prerequisite questions that you need to ask before going for the main ones.
Starting today, try to make a self-conscious habit of asking important questions from yourself about your life and your progress.
Remember that only by asking and answering the post important questions can you achieve your goals, realize your dreams, and become who you were born to be.
A BIG HUG!
@chbartist==================
Important Note!
I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, 40, 50, 80 upvotes and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem...
***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair.
You all know the goal! We can reach: 50+ Upvotes each others!
Attention!!!
I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
AND
First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting upvotes because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity!
ABOUT OUR LIST!!! WE NEED GROW THIS LIST! LET'S GO TOGETHER IN THIS COMMUNITY - RESTEEM!
Feel free if you want to be included in the list of contributors to this community. Just ask at the end of your comment.
Thanks All of You!!!!