Thank you Fiona. So many people tell me they're estranged from a sister. I don't understand how people can let emotions run hot and wall people out, but PTSD triggers seem surprisingly commonplace. Also the "unexamined life" - we excel at finding fault with others, yet fail to take inventory of our own shortcomings. And there's the black sheep in every family. I'm sorry you've experienced so much loss but glad you've found communities filled with people who love you as you are. I'm pretty sure I can speak for all sliverbloggers when I say WE LOVE YOU FIONA!