Oh, @carolkean! I, too, have a difficult relationship with my sister. We're estranged. We'll leave it at that. I had a difficult relationship with my mother. When she died, I wept for days. It was very different when my father died. Yes, him I still miss. More than her. Grief and relationships are so complex. As is life.

PS. And with my admin hat on: Please make sure you drop this link as a comment on the #bow announcement.