Many people are so scared of sex and the main reason is not infection, what can be worse than being infected by your sexual partner? It is pregnancy! The rate at which people fornicate nowadays is alarming and a high population of the world is guilty of this..
People fornicate for different reasons though, some want to know if they are sexually compatible with their partner before getting married to avoid disaster because it can lead to some marriage problems when one of the partners has a high libido while the other has a low one.
When you have unprotected sex with a lady, the first thing she would ask is if you pour inside, of all things why is that always the first thing they ask, it simply means they are scared of pregnancy, I won't blame them though, guys are afraid of the responsibility that comes with bringing up a child and hence they would deny what belongs to them, so this is more reason why most ladies are also taking extra precaution... This post is not about fornicators by the way....
Children are blessings from God and the home is not complete without them but certain factors must be considered before bringing a child to this world.
The most important thing is Money, some people fail to admit that money is the most important thing in this world we are, money can buy happiness and much more and the lack of money is why some people are scared of marriage and giving birth.
If we remove money, men should give birth at the age of 22 upward but the lack of it is what made men hustle and try to make it in life before they father a child which is a good reason because I don't see a reason why anyone should bring an innocent child to suffer in this world.
Aside money problem, the rest is a small case.
When it comes to my ideology about children, I love children and I would love to have 4 but based on certain factors like if my wife does not want up to that because of the pains of childbirth, I can still accept three but they won't be more than 4.
I am still in hustling mode but anytime from now, I can have a child because time waits for no man and we need to grow with our kids.
It is not nice to have our first child at old age because we might not live long enough to see their youthful days. It is circumstance that made people wait till they are 40 years before giving birth.
Growing up with our kids is nice but do not rush things if you are not capable of taking care of them.
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