You And I Are Just Average In Her Mind (Do Chads Actually Exist?)

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One of the biggest realizations I have made about women is that in their minds they think a guy like me or a guy like you perhaps is just an average Joe Blow type character and there is nothing extra ordinary.

Most women's look is a complete fabrication between the makeup, physical altercations like breast implants, Brazilian Butt Lifts, fake eye lashes, and fake hair extensions along with many other things.

You can rise to a level 10X what she is and have a looks threshold far beyond hers but in her mind in the United States you are just some average guy.

You are only going to attract women several notches below your looks equivalency and if they are your looks equivalent get ready to take care of her 4 kids by 3 different baby daddies. Get ready to pay off her hundreds of thousands in college debt. Get ready for her to have all the power in the relationship. Get ready to be doing constant damage control for her severe mental instability.

** I'm not trying to complain I'm just telling you the harsh reality of the currentdating market in the United States. **

I have discussed previously that Canadian women are way hotter on average than American women and the same goes for Australian women. A high number of them are vaccine injured from the Covid Experiment / Scam so good luck on that front.

If you cut out all the obese women, the chicks on depression medications, and narrow it to women 18-32 or some range of that nature you are at less than 2% of the female population in the United States. Around 85% of the women are obese here. It doesn't take long of just walking around and seeing what's out there to realize the United States is just scraps for the most part.

Then so many women who are actually hot are continually single and then let their looks fall apart by 2 notches and get with the gayest spinless SIMP they can immediately locate.

He will be a starter husband and she will put in the minimum required time allowed by law and possibly shart out a malnourished crotch goblin to secure a child support check.

She will then proceed to get on dating apps and have true Alphas slam her out on a cold rainy Tuesday and then proceed to attempt to boss those guys around like she did her Ex Husband. It's the American Way 馃嚭馃嚫馃 at this point. Those guys won't commit to even giving her the "relationship" label even in private let alone on social media.

** I Have Studied A Lot Of Men's Overall Game **

Religious Game, Drug Game, Athlete Game, Car Game, Music Game, Mystery Man Game, Dog Dad Game, Super SIMP Game, Stable Corporate Job Game, Beard Game

NO Combination of this game is going to work indefinitely 99.99967% of the time. Ask Tom Brady, Brad Pitt, Kevin Costner, Johnny Depp and the rest of the crew.

You just have to accept this reality and as painful as it is you likely look like an average try hard court jester that she could have if she wanted to. And So Do I.

** Do Chads Exist???? **

So its all relative. You think there are these guys who it's "Easy" for but I'm telling you it's not like that to get upper tier women in the United States.

Most of the time it is right place, right time and they are adding in a few combos. Like she is horny because she is ovulating and she has a "girls" night and is drinking wine with her friends and 11pm rolls around and some guy she exchanged info with before that she has been following on Instagram posts something and she replies to the story and they bang in the middle of the night and he lives 3 miles away.

You might say that makes the guy a chad but often what those guys find out is it is very tough to make the 8s and 9s a consistent thing. They get an extreme amount of attention so they are like a kitten with a 1000 yarn balls bouncing around.

So it has almost became that if a man ends up having sexual contact with a woman who isn't overweight almost becomes a fringe Chad type character at this point considering so many women can't control their weight and aren't willing to put in the work to get it under control.

** Are there guys who were a true Chad in my eyes where I got true confirmation???? **

There were a couple guys that seem to have enough of the pieces to present an additional level of success without just dropping bags of money on chicks.

The picture cracks me up but I played baseball with this guy and he got a legitimate 9 out of 10 to come visit him for several days and I could just tell by his diminer and the way he carried himself that it would be replicatable success with his look. A very stoic attitude.

He also confirmed that he had a higher tier of traction in Australia. Like he was super popular there and based on my personal experience I believe him 100%.

But as far as in the United States he certainly was having a fair amount of traction with 8's and 9's where most guys have only seen those women from a distance he still wasn't indefinitely retaining these full on baddies which is what we have observed with guys with the highest looks and status thresholds.

About the time this guy is talking to these chicks they would start thinking he is just a regular guy and that they are better than him.

Psychologically as soon as you are in regular communication you have been brought back down to Earth and have partially been captured or tamed. This happens extremely fast in 2024.

Every few days or few weeks these women have new mystery guys they are interested in and those guys might not live in the same state or the same country and they might not ever meet those guys.

** Conclusion **

Whether it is immediately or within a week of trying to attract these women you look regular AF and boring AF no matter hot hot or how built up you are. This is just the harsh reality and even if you "settled" for a bloated landwhale who is a single mom with 3 baby daddies the same will ultimately play true. They will never be satisfied.

The unfortunate solution to this is having to go to other parts of the world where you have more traction and where the women have to compete more and they don't have as much leverage on you. Then unfortunately never fully commiting to them. Even if you are satisfied it is like you have to remain icey and stoic. 馃ザ馃ザ馃ザ馃ザ馃ザ

Do you guys think you have ever had sexual contact with a 9? I Haven't..... I'm very conservative with the ratings and I don't ever give 10s basically.

The issue with the 8s and 9s is they won't often go long term with a guy untill they have fallen to 6s or 7s and their expectations go up higher than when they were at their hottest.

They aren't informed of this common reality until they go through it themselves.

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