I laughed because you are so right on this stuff.

In my experience a lot of women are poor evaluators of actual equity and value like you said.

I ran into a very similar situation with a woman I went on a few dates with. I sort of broke my rules because this woman was upper tier for her age. It turned out we both drove Audi's which wasn't something I was trying to flex. We just happened to park close to each other.

Despite the various conversations which should have clued her in that I wasn't exactly average, I ended up losing ground with her because she basically felt I was some loser without a job. Like you said, they look at you like you are homeless essentially.

One day I was in the woods hunting mushrooms and sent her some pictures. It was like 2pm in the afternoon and I think she was stressed out and then got pissed off that I was able to look for mushrooms midday.

Basically she derailed the whole thing later that night saying it wasn't going to workout.

Women self sabatosh their situations all the time.

I have seen it so many times and have experienced it first hand.

They want a guy with a stable job at a fortune 500 company but as soon as he has that he is boring and works too many hours.

She wants a guy with a six pack but he goes to the gym too much so he is a douche bag.

At the end of the day I have so many of these girls I have came across over the years and they act like I'm suspect but then they follow all my Instagram stories for years.

I don't know if they ever come up with the idea that their life is boring as hell compared to mine or not. Or that they would have been better off hanging around me longer.

The likely thing is they justify their actions to themselves and always think they have unlimited options and unlimited time.

There are some pretty brutal stats out there that project that 45% of women by 2030 between 25-45 won't be married and won't have kids.

I'm not trying to crush everyone's dreams but I have worked game all over the country and we are talking pulling out elite game and I would never say it was "easy." It was far from it.

Also i compare notes with other guys around the country. Oftentimes the traction they gain are with chicks who are dropped down a couple levels below them. Single moms....etc

Another thing a lot of guys don't realize is that so much of it has to do with being in the right place at the right time especially now because women have so many options and guys hitting them up constantly.

It is insane how much of our existence can revolve around impressiving women on some level.

That is why I think society is destabilizing. Average women don't want to get with average guys. Suddenly 90% of guys aren't getting anything so they do the base level to just sort of survive day to day. Guys can be in a way more uncomfortable situation compared to women so dudes will just live minimal and play video games. Dropping out of society and out of hard labor jobs. It could be the fall of the Empire. With no premise of being with a woman or raising a family people will just drop out and do the bare minimum.