And I suppose that is the way that it is in the whole of life. There is truth and then there is perception of truth. And as firm as we are in our beliefs of events, it doesn't necessarily concur with reality or even just someone else's perception of that very same truth.
The only way that I see fit to make that judgement call, would be to live in ones own truth, so to say:
Only then can you revert back to the situation with clarity and maybe even a better understanding of your feelings thereof with a more accurate perception.
No one ever said that facing the truth will be easy, not even if it is just your own truth. But if there is one thing that I have made peace with in life, it would definitely be rather facing a hurtful truth than a soothing lie. And because of this, I always try to push myself deeper into my own truth. Not always with the greatest amount of success though, especially not when it comes to love, that is the place that I struggle with this the most.
You see for me, especially when it comes to people that I care about, I find it so easy to lie to myself and create the illusion of limited flaws, in stead of facing my own honest perceptions about them.
So here's to truth, and keeping it real, or at least giving it your best shot, because you wouldn't want to be lied to by anyone else, why would you want to lie to yourself?
Pictures were taken in Satara - Kruger National Park S-A