The prevailing lifestyle of getting better is poking in the face, I always stick with not allowing what goes on outside affect you internally. I believe we should be the sole provider for ourselves directing how we react to actions.
There's always an opinion, everyone has opinions and everyone is free to express themselves regardless of the other opinion.
The truth is that my opinion matters, your opinion matters also but the decision to follow through any of the opinions before is entirely up to you.
I recall some years back when I concluded high school then being bored daily at home. I searched every nook and cranny for a job to keep my head up high but couldn't find one within the neighbourhood.
On the third day of my search I found a job that truly I didn't like but made up my mind to do it anyways, the job description was to be a cleaner at one of the biggest nursery and primary school. I returned home, then prepared my application letter to submit it to the school management the next day.
The next day came, on opening the door my parents asked where I was going, then I replied going to drop an application,at first there was this smile on their faces until I mentioned the job description, then it started, reasons why I shouldn't apply started coming up, good reasons for tht matter.
As the cool headed lad I was I saw reasons with them then decided not going. I couldn't sleep throughout the night I just realised I was missing an opportunity to change my daily routine and earn regardless of what the job entails.
The next day, I just took my bathe and dashed out, on opening the door, the same question arises but this time around my mind was made up. Not answering anyone, I dashed to the school but was told that the woman that just came out from the school gate upon my arrival just got the job.
What an heartbreak 💔...
When I got home my parents asked if I got the job, with anger within, I replied, no.
Then I had the shock of my life, "why didn't you go yesterday?"
Really, is that what you have to say?
That was when it dawned on my that everyone can express their opinions but the choice is all yours.
My opinion, your opinion matters thats what counts.
One of my mantra today is by Pope Johnpaul II, " Totus Tuis," meaning it's all in your hands.
