Politeness usually refers to behavior, use or speech that expresses etiquette, respect and courtesy. Politeness usually starts with expressing one's own attitude. We can check and sort politeness by your behavior, speech, humility.
Polite behavior - such as not interrupting someone, listening patiently. Many times we do not interrupt when talking to someone. And we do not listen patiently. Rather, we disrespect their words in front of their words. In that case, we should listen patiently to people's words. Do not protest.
Use polite language – such as “please”, “thank you”, “excuse me”. If people have ever made a mistake, forgive us without exaggerating. And speak to them politely.
Show respect for others – such as respecting the elderly, loving the young.
If some people speak rudely to us at home, we should speak to them politely, whether they are young or old. If they are older, greet them and respond to their words. And if they are younger, pat them on the head and treat them nicely.
Do you think politeness is important? Should it be followed?
Yes, politeness is a very important thing like me. Because if politeness cannot be maintained, corruption will increase in the society. As a result, our society will be damaged. So politeness is very necessary for everyone. Which will make our society bright.
★ How politeness maintains peace in society:
When a quarrel starts with someone in the society. Then if we use foul language and rudeness, we will be defamed. So there is a possibility of various kinds of damage. For example, in the society, two people are fighting like a war. Now if both of them use rude and vulgar language, there is no possibility of a fight.
So if we follow politeness there, the possibility of quarrel will be very less. Honor will not be lost. So we have to treat everyone who belittles us well and treat them like friends. So that society is good through politeness
★ Expresses human values
Politeness is a reflection of our personality
and moral values. It shows how conscious, compassionate and responsible we are.
Politeness always shows a good personality. And if you maintain politeness, both your present and future will be good.
★ Helps in building relationships:
I have generally seen since a very young age that everyone always has a good relationship with those who are humble and polite. And politeness helps in guiding people in the right direction. And through politeness we can build good relationships with people. As a result, our relationships are strong and happy.
5 common incidents where politeness is demanded:
When we talk to someone older or respected, we should use polite language, not speak loudly and show respect.
👉 Are you going on a bus or train. At that time, if a person older than you is standing. Give him his own seat and stand up yourself. This is a sign of politeness and respect.
👉 Then if the teacher knows how to teach in the classroom. At that time, standing up from the seat respects him so salute him. Then if the same teacher meets us on the street. First of all, salute him. I think this is a real sign of politeness.
👉 When a guest comes to your house or you are a guest in someone's house, the first thing to do is to speak politely to them. And show politeness. For example, when a guest comes to your house, first greet him and then offer him a glass of sherbet or water. I think these are signs of politeness and politeness.
👉 Apologize when you make a mistake If we make a mistake intentionally or unintentionally saying I m sorry or I m sorry is an important aspect of polite behavior.
Give some examples where politeness was neglected. Maybe you witnessed it or someone told you.
Several years ago, I had an incident where I used to control my politeness most of the time on the street. Suddenly, I met my English teacher. She was drinking tea with her son. And she was a little too busy with her son. I went to the shopping mall. With my mother. At that time, I greeted the teacher and wanted to pet her child. But sir did not respond to my greeting. And tried to leave very quickly with her child. Sir ignored me a lot. And I could not respond to my greeting. This small incident happened because he was very busy. But I felt a lot of pain. Then my mother told me that maybe the teacher did not hear me well. Sometimes, refusing politeness can hurt many people. We should all respect everyone. Be it young or old.
