From childhood, our elders, i.e. our grandparents, great-grandparents, and parents all teach us to respect elders and everyone older than us and along with that, they teach us to love the younger ones. Our elders try to create love and kind nature in our hearts from our childhood. But our elders and our family members do not teach us which people to respect and which kind of people cannot be respected. As we gradually grow up, we understand by interacting with different people around us which kind of people deserve respect and which kind of people do not deserve respect. In fact, respect is a very sacred thing whose qualification not everyone can achieve. Only if we know how to respect, can we become worthy of respect and the behavior of people towards us needs to be good and respectful in all aspects, only then can we respect that person.
If we think that only if someone is older than us, he will be worthy of our respect, it is a complete misconception. Every person, young or old, deserves respect through his own actions, behavior and behavior. So we must think about who is worthy of respect and who is not worthy of respect. There are some rude people who cannot speak politely at all and start disrespecting elders. Those who disrespect our parents and start treating us badly do not deserve to receive respectful treatment or behavior from us in any way. Whether a person is a member of our family or outside the family, if that person is rude, uses foul language and disrespects elders and never treats younger people politely and speaks abusively, they cannot expect respect from elders or younger people or even from people of their own age.
People who do not respect others, those whose physical behavior and even their manner of speaking are not good, that is, they are mixed with vulgarity and always speak harsh words, those people can never get respect from anyone. If we start respecting only people, then the sacred thing called respect will be disrespected. Therefore, in no way can we ever respect these bad people. If we start respecting these bad people who do not deserve respect, then there will be no difference between respectable and disrespectful people. We should always say good things about good people and always show bad people their badness. Therefore, it is very necessary to show their rightful place to those who behave badly and hurt people with their words and words. Some people hurt people's hearts with harsh words without any reason and try to create unrest in people's happy homes without any reason. These people also do not deserve to get a place of respect in any way.
Those who know how to treat children or how to talk and interact well and know how to win the hearts of children and know how to talk to elders with respect and behave decently are the only ones who deserve respect. There are some people who, when they are around or in their presence, make us feel at peace and we feel good, and we develop a respect and love for those people and with that respect. In fact, respect should never be forced on anyone or disrespect should never be forced on anyone, a person's behavior judges both respect and disrespect. However, there is no need to suffer silently by enduring the bad words of bad people. We should respond to those bad people who treat us badly and hurt us by speaking obscenely and disrespecting our family members along with them and keep a distance from them.
