Some people are experts at doing good and causing you pain almost at the same time. Being the reason why people around you laugh and at very short period you hurt them more than you show them care isn't good. No one is perfect is a fact but don't think memories of your good deeds will stick.
Memories of hurt don't go away but that of good can easily be overshadowed or lost in the tears. There is no bad in good and no good in bad. It's better to take away your good so it's evident to everyone that you are a bad person than to do someone a favour and seek a thousand and one ways to collect it back.
Remember, the power to do good is a grace on your life. Don't pursue everyone away from you. Complaints are that when good is done, people no longer remember the doer...the fact is why? It may not be that they totally want to forget, it may be because they've been seeking means to get far from you, free from your disguised good deeds.
Be wary of this! You'll only know your worth to people when what you have is exhausted. We all need people. You can't row the boat of life alone and survive for too long.
Don't shut doors. Your employee today can be your employer tomorrow. Your kids may not be the ones to take care of you tomorrow but that of others.
Extend genuine love.
©26/2/2018
Blessed Ugochukwu
