Hi everyone 
This week prompts are best of it kind. The first prompt really fit my personality. So I will like to write about it.
Being non social (anti- social) does not mean being completely isolated. Personally I will say that being non social means being a little bit selective in your cycle, not being comfortable with everyone.
I am a non- social person, I am not isolated, it takes me so much time to be comfortable with someone, my friend zone is very simple and not vast.
I enjoy spending time alone, or with few people that I'm comfortable with not with anyone I see or with everybody.
I'm not always in a haste to make friends, I study people from afar before getting close to them.
I do not like large crowd, especially where there's noise.
I'm always contented with my own company, some people that are not close to me call me introvert, some call me snub, some even says that I have pride or look down on other people. No I am neither of the above, I enjoy my quiet time and spending time with myself and few friends.
I don't feel the need of constantly being around with people, I will always feel like they are stalking me and I really need private time for myself so I don't like to be stalk. This might sound strict right?!!.
I enjoy other people's company no doubt, but not for a long time.
I have benefitted so much from my unsocial life; it gives me time to think and make decisions for myself, it gives me time to be focus, especially on my own interests.I do not feel pressurize by others, it reduces distraction and makes me more productive to myself and people that are looking up to me.
Being non-social makes me take charge of my own life without trying to please people or thinking about what they will say.
It gives me positive energy every time. Being non social has save me from a lot of dramas and Negative energies.Especially as I do not have time to entertain gossips or talk down on others.
Honest if you have low self-esteem you can't be
unsocial, it takes confident and inner strength to be comfortable being non social.Yes!
Like I said earlier, being non social does not really means being Isolated, it's not healthy to be spending time alone all the time, you can't face life alone, sometimes you have to talk to someone to be relieved. You need to have reliable, trustworthy people that you are comfortable with around you. There is possibility of being non social without being Isolated.
Maintaining a sound relationship with others is very crucial.
You have to always strike a balance.
Despite being non- social, I do not hate anyone and I still keep meaningful connections.
I'M VERY COMFORTABLE BEING NON SOCIAL
I don't think I feel bad being non social, I'm very fine with it.
Being non social suits me just fine. It's my preferred way of living and I'm comfortable with it.
I enjoy the peace and freedom I have. Not being stalk and not being force, persuade or pressure to act out of my will. Because being social, you are exposed to so many people and so many advices and opinions.
I appreciate the solace that comes with spending time alone. It allows me to think, meditate and reflect.
I know not everyone likes when someone is being non social, but I have derived so much peace from it .
HOW BEING NON SOCIAL HAS AFFECTED MY RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHERS.
Being a non social person has affected my relationship with others positive. Although as a non social person, I have few friends and few people that I have surrounded myself with, I have form and authentic and deeper bond with them.
I'm not after quantity I'm in to quality, and I'm only attracted to positive energy.
It is not about having a large number of people.
Even if it's one person, it must be true and genuine. We share understanding, interests and values together.
Although being non social has make me very hard to make new friends, and sometimes people give a wrong misconception to my non social life thinking I'm unfriendly. Some people might think I don't want to spend time with them or I do not like their company,
I do not ignore people that come to me and ask me why I'm non social, I explain to them that I like a quieter scene, and at a particular time I need to be alone.
Even in my relationship, we keep communication very important, but I also keep my own space, no stalking. But I make sure that I love with all my heart and my partner must feel loved.
Being non social can be challenging sometimes.
Even in school, I say hi to few people in my department, and I have a close relationship with just one person. Some people think it's pride, no it's not, that is just who I am. Being non social people will make people to misinterprete your actions.
Being non social is a little bit challenging sometimes; you might feel lonely, for example when you are invited for an event as family, everyone leaves home and you are the only home, you will be lonely at home.
But they benefits of being non social worth it.
And I don't think I'm going to make any changes soon until I see a reasonable reason ☺️
Thanks for stopping by, hope you find this interesting ♥️♥️