Valentines days is said to be the day for lovers . People tend to express love with roses , chocolates , gifts and plushies . But in my opinion if you really love someone then you need to express it daily and that doesn't even require fancy chocolates , gifts or bouquets.
Here is how to Express love Everyday effortlessly.
Pay close attention to how someone feels . Ask about their day daily notice what little things cheer them up , what makes them sad . What they loved about their daily life . For example I love Van Gogh so I would be really really happy if someone bought me a sunflower. But that's not all if I was showed a picture of a sunflower that someone took just to show me because I get cheered by them . I would be so overwhelmed and happy Not because of a flower picture but because they had taken time to think about me at that moment . People really can get happy with small things you just need to notice them enough.
Something I learnt living with my mom and dad is You don't even need to say I love u instead show it in your actions 26 years in there marriage and everytime my mom is sad or tired my dad is there to care for her even massage her feet and hands . Which is rare in Pakistani men because of misogyny but my dad expresses his love threw these gestures whilst my mom when ever she sees dad being grumpy she would make something he loves like fried fish . Because that's something that he really likes. These small acts or gestures that show love are I think all that you need in your life I mean everyone has a bad day but having someone to support you on a bad day is just wonderful in its own way.
I think one of the bestest and most greatest way to save love in a relationship is to Appreciate each other and to apologize for the mistakes you make . When you love someone you make sure that fights and arguement only happen in a healthy way . No couple can say we never fight . We all have something that we different in opinion how ever it's not as big as to leave the entire person because of this one disagreement .
Fights where you put your points upward straight and talk why you are mad are okay . Even if you have anger sucking it all up so you don't hurt. the other person's sentiments is also love . I think it's beautiful to lower your anger and ego for someone you love that itself means you love this person so much that you would compromise on your ego and anger for them and I think that's the best way to show love . The phase where both go and talk and do simple things for each other even in fights is like silently caring for each other even when you don't talk . That's a way to show pure love and care.
those were some Tips to express love and make your relationship stronger . That's all for today Thank you for your precious time and support ❤️
