It seems that when you become a parent things change on every level. Like for instance, last year for my birthday I got a portable changing table, and a diaper bag. Super exciting stuff, where the years before, I would get fishing stuff or camping gear. Those were not my choices, but they worked out great. Yesterday I was asked what I would like for Father's day, and this is where I shocked my self. I said well I would like my couches cleaned...... Our kid has been sick, and has thrown up a little on the couch, we clean it up, but it still could use a good old steem cleaner. The fact that I asked for the equivalent of a house hold appliance shows I have given up on anything for me, and realize that I probably won't have time. It was a sad moment, but also a realistic one too.