Hate is Not an Opinion.

Thank you @focusnow for your important post There is Only One Race - The Human Race and for asking others to chime in. This is my response.

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Growing up as a privileged, christian, upper middle class, white woman in small-town Ohio, I was steeped in the opinions of others in my bracket. These opinions were expressed unabashedly because there was no challenge. Hurtful, false opinions about others were expressed in ways that became the norm. Seeing differences between humans was taught with vengeance. I am teaching my young sons that they can use their words to express their voice. But when it came to calling out the hate I heard around me, I did not use mine.

I want to make my voice crystal clear now. Opinions are not opinions when they marginalize, criminalize or otherwise refer to a group of people as "less than." Those opinions are, in fact, active bigotry, racism, sexism, homophobia and other forms of hate. No form of hate in deed or word should be tolerated. Anywhere. Ever. Allowing too many people to get by with perpetuating hate by excusing it as simply their opinion is why we still have racism, sexism and all the other isms that decay this simple, universal truth. We Are All One.

It's more than past time to call a spade a spade. To call hate, hate. I find it telling that when challenged, those in my bracket go right to name-calling. I have been called a snowflake, and so much worse, as I dare to contradict the cultural norms I grew up with. And so I take up the name of snowflake proudly. There are millions more of me. Maybe billions - I am raising two more. Compact snow makes one hell of an ice wall. Hate shall not pass.

Yes, we are all different. We can be dissected down to our most discrete parts. There is always an other if you look for the differences. Or. We can look bigger. We can grow bigger. Grow to an avalanche of oneness in our humanity. We will always have differences of opinions. But let's be crystal, cold-as-ice-clear. Hate is not an opinion.

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