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Everyones nature is different some people are very friendly but some people like to stay alone a lot, I will not always say that people who stay alone do not have friends, everyone has friends, no matter how you are, everyone definitely has some friend or the other and can have anything, some people make friends with humans, some people make friends with animals some people love books some have different interests. I had a friend, what she used to do, one should read books they are your real friends. From there you learn something or the other, nowadays we all have so many things around us but still we are not able to use them, those who are using them are earning well from it. Firstly as I can tell by looking at my surroundings, earlier it used to be that the entire family used to live together no matter how many children there were in the family, everyone used to live together and play together but now the trend has changed a lot. Nowadays if someone gets married, then after that everyone shifts into a nuclear family and they do not want to take any kind of responsibilities on themselves yes inflation is increasing but look at it there is a different fun in living together I feel so.

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When I was a child, there used to be a lot of activity in our village and we used to play a lot in the evenings but now when I go there there are very few people there most of the people have gone to big cities or are doing some studies, many people are married and everyone has now gone to different places. But I feel that we should have a bonding relationship with our family members or relatives and we should visit them from time to time because they know you better than anyone else. It wouldn't be wrong to say that not all family members are good, because many people are jealous of each other or try to insult them in some way or the other. But if your family members aren't like that, then you should visit them and spend time with them. (It feels agree no work just talk about the past and other things)

If I were to talk about myself, I am not that social, but I am friendly with my family members and I enjoy chatting with them, but I don't have such a bond with everyone. Well, I mostly spend time in my room. If it were the old times, then probably all of us would be living in one big room and we would know what each other was doing, and that was a different time. Now whenever anyone builds a house, they demand separate rooms and it is fine for privacy too but I feel that there should be a room where everyone can sit and discuss and share their joys and sorrows and whatever problems they have in life, they should share them quickly because it is very important to share it with your family.

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I have a very good bond with my uncle and aunt because I lived with them for many years in my childhood and yes, they must have beaten me in my childhood and many other times too but it was all done for my benefit only. Now I feel that they used to get angry at times but as time passed we realized what his circumstances were like at that time and why he might have done this, we should also think about this. They think that I am a good boy and I don't know whether I am or not, I have doubts about myself and maybe I am not good as people thinks. But look, I feel that whatever relatives you have, if they are good, if they have behaved well with you or helped you whenever you needed, then you should make good relations with them and sit and chat with them and if they live far away then you should definitely go and meet them sometimes.

Nowwe have others phone numbers and everyone is active on all types of social media but now we are not able to chat as much with our family members as we used to do earlier, yes some people still do it, everyone nature is different, I was like this from the beginning, a little shyness and maybe there is some fear inside me too due to which I am not able to chat openly, I don't know whatever I am doing but I am like this. My personality keeps shifting according to people sometimes I become more introverted and sometimes I become extravert it depends on the people around me. (maybe i have multiple personality xd. )

I really love this kind of characters xd. (Or maybe I am like this)

So in the end I would just say that if your family members, your uncle, aunt or any of your relatives, if they have good relations with you and support you every time in happiness and sorrow, then you should make good relations with them and should show the same thing to your coming generation that you should behave well with people and help people. Everyone situation is not the same, everyone's life has happiness and sorrow, if you are capable enough to help others then you must do it and you should feel proud if you are able to help someone because many people are not able to do so. We should never judge a person on the basis of their financial condition because good and bad days keep coming but if you do not share in the sorrow of a person then you have no right to share in his happiness also.

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