Greetings everyone!
For every man family is the most important thing. Family is only thing which are loyal to which are actually yours in this cruel world. Other people will just go and laugh on you, but family always stays with you even in your highs and lows. But sometimes it also happens that fight starts or a cold war starts between the family with your own blood with the same people with whom you have get grown from childhood. The question is that will you allow your child to keep relation with your family members with whom you don't talk or keep relation with.
Well I think personally having a family is blessing and in every human life family plays the most important role. My family background is something like this where my parents don't talk to their brother and sister they don't keep much relation with each other. But on the other side they are blood relation they should stay together but they are fighting in themselves with their personal reason. Now we don't keep any relation with them even they have not seen us from years and even my family. There is no family get-together.
Sometimes it hurts and they also have children of same age as mine. And even we are talking too them a lot. Our parents never said no, but still it affects on their point of view and even ours. Everyone of us think wrong for each other like we don't have to keep the actual relation we should. This hurts sometimes as now I am grow-up but sometimes I feel what if everyone of us could be together like old time we have no jealousy for each other. And we were all playing together I am literally missing that time. When we were actually family.
When I see other people with their family I feel jealous sometimes of their bonding and I think I wish I could also get such an amazing family where I can also feel the happiness staying with cousins and enjoying with the uncles and aunties without any negativity for each other. But when I will get kids and my uncles kid too as our generation will grow as a parent I will never block my children to talk with them. If they keep the bond that's good they should.
I feel like if the problem is with the older people they should keep within them, and away from their children so that their bond never get impact in to negativity. Family is most important thing a man can do anything to protect his family. But if your family fades away there is no big heartbreak then this feeling. Always keep good relation and stay away from negativity always be humble even your own people are doing bad with you. So I have seen lot of things with my uncle and aunty but at last I cannot do anything all we need to do is accept and move on.
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