How Promises Shape Relationships—And Break Them

We all make some promises in our lives. Some promises are such that we keep them, while others are such that we forget them. Often, from childhood till today, many incidents have happened with us which we remember because some are such that we forget or are not able to fulfil the promise which we make to someone and some particular people say some things to us and now what happens is that we are not able to fulfil the promise. See, sometimes we make a lot of promises in excitement, but after that, when our excitement cools down, we forget the promise as well. I also often keep making many promises to people, and many times they are fulfilled, and sometimes I am not able to do them any harm. See, it is said that when we are happy, we should not make any kind of promise. And this is true because when we are all happy then we make many different kinds of promises, but it happens that we are not able to fulfil them.

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Well, I have made promises to myself many times, and I am not able to keep them, like waking up in the morning or going to sleep on time at night or not eating fast food. yes, I have controlled myself a little in that. We keep making so many promises to ourselves that others probably don't even know. The things that we make to ourselves, we hardly share with anyone, and there are some people who try something new or leave something, they definitely share it with their friends and then if they break the promise, then it is their disgrace. See, if you make promises and are unable to fulfil them, then you have no respect left, and people start looking at you like this, they think you just keep talking and do nothing. We all bastards sometimes do such things that we talk a lot in excitement, but we are unable to do anything.

It has often happened to me that whenever I get too excited, I say a lot of things, but in the end, I am not able to do anything, and I feel very sad about it. Well, there have been many such incidents in which I have broken the trust of people, and I want to tell you about one of them over the phone. I don't like going to parties or weddings as much. I enjoy my own company more, and I like to spend time alone, and I am very happy in this. A few years ago, it was my friend's wedding, and he had sent me a card and also called me. He was a very close friend of mine and he had asked me to come to the wedding and I had said yes to him but due to some reason, I had a lot of work in my office at that time, so I could not go to the party or the wedding, due to which he was very angry with me and most of the people get angry at me for the fact that I am not able to go to their parties and this is also a matter of great sadness for me.

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See, it is said that as we speak, so we reap, so the same happens with me too, I will not say that it always happened with me, people cheat me, see, many times it happens that people talk to us and they get busy, problems come in everyone's life, some emergency keeps coming and it often happens with me too that we plan to go somewhere and in the end we are not able to go anywhere because someone or the other is not able to come on due to which we have to cancel the plan. See, I would like to say this to all of you that you should make such promises which you can fulfill, do not make such big promises that you cannot fulfill and if you do this then the belief that you have on yourself goes away, this brings laughter in your relationships and this has a huge impact on your relationship, whether it is your friend, relative or someone else.

If you make a promise to someone, then fulfill it and if you are not able to fulfill the promise, then tell them the reason and try to convince them because many times we make big promises and then in the end we are not able to do anything due to which the other person gets very angry and there is a lot of distance in our relationship.

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