The initiative of my friend @damarysvibra The recesses of the inner world, seemed very interesting to me, a journey through our interior leads us to analyze and evaluate those three states of the SELF, child, parent and responsible adult, although I have grown up and am close to adulthood my inner child is still present and in certain circumstances she is the one who takes control, as a child I liked to explore and walk through the fields, I was always interested in knowing what was behind the mountain, on the other side of the river or in that big green tree that could be seen at the end of the road, on many occasions without measuring the consequences and acting like the child that I was, I took risks that included falls, scrapes but the satisfaction of seeing and knowing what had caught my attention filled my curiosity and the pain was left in the background.
Over the years, as I have taken on the responsibilities of an adult, I have forgotten the experiences of that naughty little girl who loved to enjoy nature, run and play. The many tasks of adult life sometimes prevent us from enjoying the beautiful moments that life gives us. Thinking about this, I have decided to make the most of my trips and outings. That's why every time I have the opportunity to visit a natural environment, my inner child comes out and I let myself be carried away by my emotions and my explorer mode. In the company of my son, who is my little adventurer, we go for walks and explore the environment. It's fun because we both learn, get to know each other and share our love for nature and adventure.
La iniciativa de la amiga @damarysvibra Los recovecos del mundo interior, me pareci贸 muy interesante, un recorrido por nuestro interior nos lleva a analizar y evaluar esos tres estados del YO, ni帽o, padre y adulto responsable, aunque haya crecido y est茅 cerca a la edad adulta mi ni帽a interior sigue presente y en ciertas circunstancias es quien toma el control, de ni帽a me gustaba explorar y recorrer los campos siempre me llam贸 la atenci贸n saber que hab铆a detr谩s de la monta帽a, al otro lado del r铆o o en ese gran 谩rbol verde que se ve铆a al final del camino, en muchas ocasiones sin medir las consecuencias y actuando como una ni帽a que era, asum铆 riesgos que inclu铆an ca铆das, raspones pero la satisfacci贸n de ver y conocer lo que hab铆a llamado mi atenci贸n, llenaba mi curiosidad y el dolor quedaba en segundo plano.
Con el paso de los a帽os al asumir las responsabilidades de adulto, he olvidado las vivencia de esa ni帽a traviesa que amaba disfrutar la naturaleza, correr y jugar, las muchas ocupaciones en la vida adulta a veces impiden que disfrutemos los hermosos momentos que la vida nos regala, pensando en ello me he propuesto aprovechar al m谩ximo los viajes y salidas, por eso cada vez que tengo la oportunidad de visitar un entorno natural, mi ni帽a interior sale a flote y me dejo llevar por las emociones y el modo explorador, en compa帽铆a de mi hijo que es mi peque帽o aventurero, realizamos caminatas y exploramos el entorno, es divertido porque los dos aprendemos, conocemos y compartimos nuestro amor por la naturaleza y las aventuras.
As for my motherly self, that protective side of me always stands out, wanting my son to lack nothing, and I recognize that on occasion I've tried to prevent him from going through some sad and painful situations, but this is truly beyond my control. His growth and development in facing life include difficult situations that will teach him how to solve problems, make decisions, and mature. It hasn't been easy to let go of the protective mode, but I've made significant progress.
En cuanto a mi YO de madre, siempre resalta esa parte protectora de querer que a mi hijo no le falte nada y reconozco que en algunas oportunidades he intentado evitar que pase por algunas situaciones tristes y dolorosas, pero realmente esto escapa de mis manos, su crecimiento y formaci贸n para enfrentar la vida incluye situaciones dif铆ciles que le van a ense帽ar c贸mo resolver problemas, tomar decisiones y a madurar, no ha sido f谩cil soltar el modo protector, pero he logrado importantes avances.
My adult self is the one that has been very present in me in recent years, and closely linked to my child and mother self. I'm at a point in my life where peace and tranquility are the most important things. That's why, when making a decision or making a commitment, I think about it, analyze it, draw my conclusions, and if there's more than one point in any of these items that affects my peace of mind, I definitely discard it, because well-being at this age is the most important thing to me. I try to live peacefully, without rushing, and one day at a time.
Taking it slow allows me to appreciate the details and enjoy the spaces I visit. The countryside and its beautiful surroundings have become a refuge for resting from the urban hustle and bustle, breathing fresh air, and recharging my batteries. You could say it's a kind of therapy, enjoying contact with nature.
I invite @hylene74,
@annafenix, and
@brujita18 to join this initiative.
Mi YO adulto, es el que en los 煤ltimos a帽os ha estado muy presente en m铆,y estrechamente vinculado al YO ni帽a y madre, estoy en un momento de mi vida donde la paz y tranquilidad es lo m谩s importante, por eso al momento de tomar una decisi贸n o asumir un compromiso lo pienso, lo analizo, saco mis conclusiones y si en alguna de estos items hay m谩s de un punto que afecta mi tranquilidad definitivamente lo desecho, porque el bienestar a esta edad es lo m谩s importante para m铆, trato de vivir en tranquilidad, sin prisa y un d铆a a la vez.
Ir con calma me permite apreciar los detalles y disfrutar los espacios que visito, el campo y su hermoso entorno se ha convertido en refugio para descansar del dinamismo urbano, respirar aire puro y recargar energ铆a, se podr铆a decir que es una especie de terapia al disfrutar el contacto con la naturaleza.
Invito a @hylene74,
@annafenix y
@brujita18 a unirse a esta iniciativa.
Blessings!
隆Bendiciones!
All images are my own.
Todas las im谩genes son de mi autor铆a.