There's many things that make me happy and always the first is the relationship I have with my guy. It's deep, respectful, open and honest and while far from perfect, we are both imperfect creatures of course, it is pure, brings great meaning and value and is the platform and framework my happy and meaningful life is bult upon. There's health, a fulfilling professional career, travel, my cats...all things that make me happy but without that man in my life I do not think happiness would have the same meaning.
As with most people there's many things that make me sad but one of the most profound is the loss of incredibly important and meaningful people which has happened to me more times that I would like to recall. Dealing with the loss of a loved one can be difficult and I find myself feeling a little more empty each time it happens. It's so important not to stop living when we lose someone close, they would not want that for us, but with me I feel a little piece becomes lost with that person and I can't get it back.
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My guy. I'm a one guy gal and there's so many aspects of the guy I have that turn me on. I find myself staring at him sometimes and feeling so switched on with life, love and lust. He is a manly guy, capable, rugged and reliable but he wears that tough exterior over a pure and gentle heart which many see and benefit from, but none see as I do. His manners are a turn on, the way he stands up for those who cannot stand up for themselves is a turn on and the way he makes me laugh is a turn on. Perfect? No, he is not, but he turns me on in so many ways, activates things inside me that no one else reaches and...and that turns me on.
Weak minded people turn me off, people who show no responsibility for themselves but expect handouts and people who are greedy and selfish turn me off. I am turned off by people who harm others for their own gain or sense of power it gives them and I am turned off by sleazy men who think they are magnificent, effeminate men and those who hold themselves above others. I also can't abide those who feel it's acceptable to harm animals, a certain turn off.
This post was written in response to one of the #weekend-engagement topics in the Weekend Experiences community.
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