Life like a mist appears for just a day then disappears tomorrow, all that we are can quickly fade away replaced with tears and sorrow. source
I thought it was a dream.
It was a shock seeing you my lovely friend in an inactive state just because of a mistake that could have been avoided, 😭😭😭😭😭😭 i can't stop asking why why why, i don't know what happened , am so confused till this moment.
A brief about my sister.
I came to Lagos without knowing whom to relate too i was all alone until one faithful Thursday that i meet with you in the ministry we exchanged number and became friends, gradually we found out that we are from same state and that means we were sisters, you always came to my house and we spent hours together, cooking and eating, we went to the beach together and did soo many things together.
All this while you had no helper and i kept on praying for God to give you a responsible helper and lately 2022 God blessed you with not just a husband but a brother who loved you soo much and did all in his ability to make you comfortable and happy, everyone was happy but personally i was more than happy because i knew what you went through, just in the space of few months the wicked one decided to take you away.
Our convention is on 1st of December we had plans to go ahead of time so that we can enjoy ourselves, so that your husband will enjoy Nigeria more, you made a lot of plans, remember the cloth we talked about, the hair you want to wear for the convention, who did you keep those things for, please please 🥺 am still in shock.
What happened?
This is a question that am still battling on how to answer because i don't understand what really happened.
We had no dispute but she just decided not to tell me she was going for a fibroid surgery, she left all alone.
The story i had was that she was operated on and shes anemic, i quickly left my house on getting there i saw her in a critical condition she was just battling for her life, i demanded for her medical records and i saw that the doctor spent five hours during the surgery and this made her loss a lot of blood, and also she had some respiratory infection that made it difficult for her to breath and the hospital were doing nothing about all that , they were busy infusing water therapy on her making the situation worse.
I demanded to move her out to another hospital just to see if i can save her life not knowing that she won't make it, we got an ambulance and we moved her to another hospital, there the new doctor told us that a lot went wrong during the surgery but he will try his best, my sister was placed in the ICU with all necessary life support but i was scared especially when i saw that her vital signs were unstable and the monitor at some point stopped working.
By 1:am my friend left me, she died without uttering a word to me 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I begged her to come back she refused i cried to her she didn't listen, till this moment i kept on asking why, why why why because i didn't have answers to so many questions.
The husband is from Finland and hes still in shock its still like a dream to him, the siblings are still finding difficult to believe that its true, everyone are still in shock 🫨😲😲😲 we don't know what happened and why.
Man born of a woman is short-lived but we are grateful for the provision our creator has made, lets pray that you are in his memory lets keep working hard to gain Gods approval and see you in the new world
Am broken 💔😭😭😭😭 am devastated and am shattered, i still want to believe that this is a dream, you were too good to die this young, but i still don't know why you decided to keep this a secret till things went soo bad.
She will be buried on Friday and that will be all😭😭😭😭😭😭