Give yourself time

Have you ever thought about how other people could be more successful and luckier than you? Or have you ever thought about how other people easily do things? I'm not sure if I should answer this question. Sometimes a simple question will have a different answer for each person. And you can't judge someone just by the answers they give. People don't just accept Yes and No. Sometimes even simple questions, people will ask for answers as complex as possible.

Like flowers planted in the ground, seeds need time to take root to survive. It takes time to grow and produce many flowers that will later decorate every corner. Time gives the seed everything it needs to grow, making it sprout day by day until finally a bud becomes a sturdy tree and produces beautiful flowers.

The seeds that are sown will not automatically grow into trees. If lucky, it will grow, then break, and grow again until it finally manages to live into a tree that will have many flowers in the future.

Growth is like planting flowers, when you spread them on the ground, not all the seeds will grow. As the seeds begin to sprout and are watered regularly, the roots will slowly begin to grow along the soil looking for something to find to survive. Some will not manage to grow, break and die. There will be some that need more time to grow. Because the growth of each other will not be the same. When living on the ground there are many obstacles in developing between one another.

Not only trees, but humans also need time. When you are injured, you need time to heal the wound. Time does not cure your wounds. But time will give everything so you can treat your wound properly.

When you see others have developed first, don't be discouraged. We are like shoots that will continue to grow into trees. You can't just be a tree and then it blooms, you need a process. Everyone has their process. You can learn from those who have progressed first. Learn every mistake you make. It's okay to make mistakes because it's a natural thing to be human. When you break, time will give everything so you can grow new branches again. The more branches break, the more you can grow new branches for flowers that will bloom later.

Everyone has their problem. It's okay if your progress is slower than others. Don't be too hasty. Life has its way. Continue to learn and try every failure that has ever been passed. Although it’s slow, it is also a progress.