Me preocupa el hecho de que tiene antecedentes en la familia de compromiso cognitivo y algunos familiares menores cercanos han presentado dificultades en su aprendizaje, retraso en la articulación del lenguaje. Hasta ahora el bebé duerme bastante y aunque sé que es normal que en su etapa lo haga sigo alerta para orientar a su mamá, hasta ahora lo lleva a sus consultas médicas e insisto en que siempre esté al pendiente de este. Cuando le visito juego con el, trato siempre de constatar si reacciona a los ruidos, movimientos; afortunadamente no tiene brazos y piernas rígidos, su mamá lo mantiene con leche materna .
Greetings community, it is a pleasure to share another experience with you. A child is synonymous with guaranteed joy, the arrival of a baby brings a new cycle in the family, especially for the older sibling. I have some godchildren, they are children that I love immensely, I care for them, for their well-being. Very close to my house live two of them, the oldest in preschool and his little brother of just 3 months old, every day I stop by their home to greet their parents and them, I am very attentive because the baby was hospitalized for a long time at birth for having respiratory difficulty and the truth is that I see his recovery is very slow.
I am concerned about the fact that he has a family history of cognitive compromise and some close family members have presented learning difficulties and delayed language articulation. So far the baby sleeps a lot and although I know that it is normal for him to do so at his stage, I am still alert to guide his mother, so far she takes him to his medical appointments and I insist that she is always aware of him. When I visit him I play with him, I always try to see if he reacts to noises, movements; fortunately he does not have stiff arms and legs, his mother keeps him with breast milk.
Su hermanito juega un papel determinante en su vida, el como todo niño trata de jugar con el, hace payasadas que resultan muy útiles porque el bebé lo sigue con la mirada y mueve sus manitas, están estableciendo un gran vínculo y me alegra porque esto contribuye a un crecimiento sano de ambos. Mi deseo es que sean felices, su entorno es muy humilde pero al mantenerse unidos emocionalmente se fortalecerán. Tener un hermano contribuye a que los niños aprendan a ser tolerantes, a compartir afecto y juguetes, a amar a otro ser al cual le une un lazo de sangre; el mayor seguro será un modelo para el otro, los padres deben incentivar el respeto y amor entre estos.
Por mi parte sigo al pendiente, tratando de orientar al niño más grande para que cuide a su hermanito, no lo toque con las manitas sucias , le hable, le cante, le baile, porque todo ello contribuye a su desarrollo y aunque siento que su evolución ha sido mas lenta , me siento contento porque es en positivo. Cuando hay antecedentes familiares y hay factores pre y post natales relevantes como: Ausencia de chequeos médicos para monitorear el embarazo, alimentación deficiente, bajo nivel educativo de los padres, problemas en el nacimiento significa que hay que poner especial cuidado en la evolución de los niños.
His little brother plays a determining role in his life, like every child he tries to play with him, he clowns around which is very useful because the baby follows him with his eyes and moves his little hands, they are establishing a great bond and I am happy because this contributes to a healthy growth of both of them. My wish is for them to be happy, their environment is very humble but by staying together emotionally they will grow stronger. Having a sibling helps children learn to be tolerant, to share affection and toys, to love another being to whom they have a blood bond; the older one will surely be a model for the other, parents should encourage respect and love between them.
For my part, I continue to be attentive, trying to guide the older child to take care of his little brother, not to touch him with dirty hands, to talk to him, sing to him, dance to him, because all this contributes to his development and although I feel that his evolution has been slower, I am happy because it is positive. When there is a family history and there are relevant pre- and post-natal factors such as: lack of medical check-ups to monitor the pregnancy, poor nutrition, low educational level of the parents, problems at birth, it means that special care must be taken in the evolution of the children.
Soy docente de Educación Especial,padre, abuelo y padrino, diferentes roles pero con mismo fin el de proteger, educar y guíar, algo que con mucho cariño y paciencia estoy dispuesto a cumplir.
I am a Special Education teacher, father, grandfather and godfather, different roles but with the same purpose of protecting, educating and guiding, something that I am willing to do with love and patience.
