Never Reject Yourself In Any Way
It's important to take a look at the personality that you've created. Perhaps one of the reasons you keep yourself from doing this is because you've been an imitator. It's not uncommon to get hung up on this.
It may help to understand that nobody can create a Self from scratch. Everyone has to do the same thing. Everybody chooses from
what's available. Even though you may have built your personality through imitation, you're not a fraud.
No one else has ever put together the exact same combination that you have. Don't forget there are only twelve notes in the musical scale, and yet many hundreds of thousands of unique and beautiful combinations are created.
It's all a matter of how they are put togetherIt doesn't make you any less of a unique person to have taken from others.
The wonderful thing about this is that since you put it together from scratch, you can change it at any time you want to.
You're never stuck. It's not a disaster to discover that you're not the person that you thought that you were.
On the contrary, it's the beginning of the end of disaster.
In order to change the experiences that are causing you pain and disharmony, it's necessary to begin with a clear understanding that you never help yourself by rejecting any part of yourself.
We get into self-hatred because we set up picture of how we think we should be
based on the conditioning from our family, peer groups, mate, religion, and the society that we live in.
The sad part of this is that we'll never be
able to live up to the pictures, images, models, standards or concepts of how we think we should be. It's a psychological dead-end.
Have a productive week ahead.