Sharing a lesson from Worst Chapters of My Life鈥擣ake Love can be toxic鈥擜 True Painful Love Story
Hello Hive Learners Community! Welcome to my blog. Today, I found one interesting topic. Hence, I decided to nialed this topic out. From different real stories in my life. I want to share one of the worst story that has given me permanent learning.
Flowers that were blooming in Spring, burned in Summer
It was the sunny day of 9th November when I entered into my first Tutorial Class. All the students were new for me because there were different students from different departments there. Teachers didn't give any dry lecture that day instead he asked us about our interests. In this class, one of the gilrs impressed me a lot by his words. We were in what's app group and I daily supported her there and she supported me also. One day, I found her DM and asked for the reason. It was first time in my University carrier when someone inboxed me with friendship proposal. I was shy in the case of friendship with opposite gender. We had already sympathy feeling for each other hence there was no excuse to reject her offer. From one day what's app chat, our friendship started.
It was start of spring and start of my friendship carrier. We helped, supported and talked to each other late night. I was not aware my friendship was rooting into my heart. When I didn't chat with her, she got disturbed and when she didn't chat with me I was frustrated. We shared dinner and many parties together. One day, she proposed me in the University Night. I was simple boy, who was not so much open minded. I became furious to hear about her feelings. I left her in the Park and moved towards my room. At night, I received many calls from her but I not picked any one of them because I was not willing for love relationship with her. I prioritize friendship over love. Friendship is more strong and good bond. In this bond, both partners understand each other. Anyway, I rejected her proposal and buncked university for many days. At last, I thought that I was making loss in study and I had to start my classes normally. One the first that she was in front of me. The girl for which I fought when someone panicked her, now she was hurt due to me. I gave up when I saw tears in her eyes. I accepted her proposal in our department Gallery and plucked a flower for her. When I gave this flower, she was happy and hugged me. Here there came a thought of permanent love and I were dreaming for this.
Our relationship was rooting more deep into my heart and I was unstoppable in her feelings. Many peaceful days spent and fighting started. Every night was more painful than previous night. I discussed about it with my friend. He advised that we fought in the start of relationship and everything would be okay after few months. She started demanding for change of my attitude, behavior and everything. I was feeling uncomfortable because I wanted to be her best person. Love is Blind and it is very blind, I came to realize about it now. Anything she demanded, I was always present for her to do it. In no time, I changed a lot. I was alone to save this relationship. Every night, I requested her to stop fight and tried to understand me. Although, I was right on many things but I did apologize to her because I was afraid she would leave me if I would show her any stubborn behavior. Already, she was aware about thousands of imperfections in my personality. I still didn't know either I was her best person or not but she was leaving me alone. I lost my mental and physical health. I was getting hurt day by day and night by night. I was frustrated and did many tries to secure her.
Result was getting more clear day by day. My fears were dominating on my thoughts. She left me alone. Her priority was someone else. Although, she didn't expose it but I saw her interests in University. She left me crying and weeping. I was sleepless and waiting for her message. There happened nothing according to my expectations. My waiting period changed into years. Still, I 'm blind in love for her. My life is stopped for her either she comes back or not. It looked that I 'm zero without her.
Disclaimer:
It is real painful story about my love in University. I 'm sorry If you feel uncomfortable during reading this story but it had many bad chapters of my life.
Conclusion
Love is never heaven for anyone. It has different terms. Sometimes, you are happy and sometimes you are much sad. For a true Love, our partner should be sincere with you. If it is just time passing then one partner broke with many bad memories. If we can't keep ourselves in relationship then we should not hurt or deceive others. We should be honest either in hate or in love. Don't make a relationship worst by your rude behavior. There are many successful examples of relationship when both partners really love to each other. I learned many things from this relationship. Now, I 'm only confined to friendship and others things have no importance for me.
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