I live in the society where parents give rights to their daughter to do everything according to their own wish except marriage. For the marriage of daughters, relatives are first, last and best option for them.
My life passing smoothly until the November 2022 I was happy with my unproductive routine. In the mid of August 2022 my semester break holidays started and I was start enjoying them as I did in my past years. I did the household chores, watching CID's series, drinking tea, made some snaps, sending streaks and spending sometime with my cousins. But my relatives were not happy with my this routine and finally my first proposal came from my father's family. According to me my parents answered them that our daughter is right now study so we don't pressurized her for marriage. But they didn't do this
My father asked me about this proposal and said me we take the final decision according to your choice. First three or four days I spent in weeping and in boycott mood with my family + didn't give any answer to my family. Because I don't want to marry in such a young age.
But at last my father got irritated a lot from my this routine and angerly asked about my decision. I refused the proposal. Then my father first break the tea cup and said I don't agree for your marriage out of family + also insulted me a lot . They also said Yes for the proposal and fixed my engagement in the mid of December. In result of it I spent three months in weeping and sickness and my engagement got cancelled and I got back in normal routine, and I thought now the threat of marriage got lessen.

But on Tuesday when I returned back from university I got the news my family once again fixed my Nikkah on 17th of July and now from past four days am again busy in weeping but my parents don't care about it. They said I will be okay after few days. But they don't understand how much I got damaged mentally. They don't understand how my life will be change after marriage. While on the other hand my friends also don't care about me and giving me different kinds of suggestions and advices.
Am feeling lots of burden on my brain, heart and shoulders. It's all because of my beloved relationships, no one from my family and friends stand with me😭.
My father said daughters are burden for parents and their marriage at a time is a good thing. Either they cried a lot before and after marriage.

Closing Thoughts:

In my country parents do the marriage of girls mostly in early age and don't care about their dreams, career and interests. Either the girls face different troubles in their life after marriage and forget to smile. They don't understand a single, happy and lively girl is much better than the unhappy married girl.
These are just my random thoughts may be you are not agreed with it.

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