ATTACKED BY THE SUCCESS?

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THE MAN WHO DOES NOT VALUE HIMSELF, CAN NOT VALUE ANYTHING OR ANYONE.

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Do you ever feel that you are somehow a fraud?

Despite the successes in your life, your good grades, your achievements in working life, the amount of praise you receive, you once had the feeling that you will eventually be unmasked as an Impostor ... This feeling is surprisingly common and is known as the IMPOSTOR SYNDROME.

According to Baida Gil, those who suffer "have the feeling of never being up to the task, of not being good enough, competent or capable, of being impostors, a fraud".

6 tips that will help you to overcome it:

Despite the evidence in their achievements, those who suffer from the imposter syndrome are continuously and internally demeaning the fact that they are deceiving everyone and therefore risk being Being unmasked this type of people attributes success to other factors such as good luck.

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The impostor syndrome if you allow it can repress people making them afraid to go for better positions.

1.- Do not forget to know yourself, to look inside yourself, to evaluate yourself and to love you.

2. - Provide value, start from love and not fear: When you think of giving more things to others that really might be needed, you will forget and you will feel too good seeing that you are contributing.

3.- Do not be afraid of what they will say: if you give much importance to what others think you are limiting yourself, what a pity that others speak of you, what a shame for the rest; because you know where you are going Always remember that the one who criticizes you and talks about you, is not the one who does what you want to do, and will not benefit from what you want to do ... If you do, they will talk, otherwise you will talk too; So what do these critics say?

4.- Find your own voice, your tone, print your style: Do not try to keep images that you are not, try to show yourself with your virtues, but above all your faults, and what they see as a defect in reality They are virtues.

5.- Learn to identify it: learn to identify that fear by believing that you are not prepared, putting as an excuse that you are not yet prepared, not knowing enough, you are responsible for your life, not for everything you need expert title, start doing it and discover that you are the best expert since in the way of doing is that you learn by staying behind and do not finish to start.

6.- The issue of money: There are people who think they do not deserve to earn money because they do not deserve it, so people think you are a fraud. If your experience is offered for free then you will live, as well as you will advance and grow in your performance if you give it all away. It may be that many times you give away things, but nevertheless you need to keep growing, to be sustainable and the experience and your knowledge for a lot or little that is always valid.

Actually when I thought about the subject, I thought about myself and my friends thinking about our potentials, about recognizing them. In what is interesting to help and support, take off the mask of the impostor and start working and acting.