In the time where people used to think that being available value.
All the value of them but this one called you inside and if someone needed you showed up and if someone disappeared for a week you were coming back without any questions what do you think might start happening to you.
If you're always there and people don't have to put in more effort to get you to why do you think people will see you so that sentence that thought can really change your life at any point in time.
You don't have to become cold but you love to stop making yourself available too much for people because they will not value you it may seem like people value you and if you make yourself too available for people they will not value you at all because people will mistake your availability for lack of value.
Most of the time, the biggest shift isn't about caring, but it's about reciprocating your love.