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Letting go means to have my peace of mind, to save me and which the best option

There's this sister in-law of mine, that has always been a pain on my neck. We have not met before but she knew me when I was much younger even before I married his brother, which I didn't know that she will turn out to be my sister in-law. Not until this Christmas season that I saw her face to face because I only know her through her pictures she do posts on social media if not I don't know how she looks. Her hatred was that when I was much younger and a teenager that I don't socialize with people and that am this church girl type because of that she won't allow his brother to marry me. So we battle that one, after much warning from her sibling and parents it was resolved.

The one that happened recently that made me to let go of her, that I have to block her contact and delete her number from my phone was the false accusation she laid on me. All these started when my husband sent to something to us, for Xmas, this sister in-law of mine said that I have received the goods and kept everything to myself and send the remaining ones to my parents and also that I have bridge his brother from sending something to them. Whereby this goods I have not even received them is still at the cargo, I was very angry with her, that I have to tell my husband about it and she was warned never to disturb me again. .

With that anger I have to let her go by blocking her contact, so that she can't reach me and also for my peace of mind. As the goods finally arrived, I waybill it to her to receive them and she has now confirmed that everything is intact. Even this Christmas as I came back home to the village, we met and talk freely, chat and at new year on the first day of year we hugged and she apologized to me for the unnecessary accusations, she now know that am not the kind of the person she taught I was after staying with since I have been with them in the village.