Good afternoon ma, please I want to complain about something that is really disturbing me.
During this holiday, my sister-in-law wanted to bring her two children to stay with me for the holiday. I politely told her that I wouldn't be able to accommodate them because I was already very busy and had a lot of engagements. My husband also explained to her that I needed to avoid unnecessary stress during this period.
Since then, everything has changed. She stopped talking to me and started telling people that I have used juju to hold her brother and that I am the reason he no longer listens to his family.
Now, his elder brothers, sisters and even their mother are all telling me to come and swear that I am innocent and that I did not use anything to tie their brother.
My husband has told me to ignore them and not give the matter any attention, but honestly, I am finding it difficult to do that. I have never done anything to this family, yet they now see me as their enemy. Nobody talks to me anymore, and I feel like everyone has already judged me without even hearing my side.
Please, ma, what should I do in this kind of situation? Should I ignore everything as my husband advised, or should I defend myself and agree to their demand that I should come and swear?