To be really under it options you only you don't need relationship now you want what you need now is options.
With options you have a lot of things to achieve you have the good days the bad days so people control you more when you have also when you have alternatives people only value more.
When you have options and that option is what make people build respect for for you, so you need to build up, you need to have money, you need to have friends, you need to have community, you need to have bonds, you need to have people that will stand by you when you're in trouble, because these are the people that really care about you.
You should not care whether they are for you or not, but the most important thing is that we have people that will always stand by you at any point in time, and that is what truly matters in life.
