Sometimes in life, there comes a time in life where being that financially unshakable matters a lot more than that love and companionship you're looking for.
Sometimes those love and companionship will not even work out without being financially stable. It will be shaky. So you don't have to be in a relationship where it is very shaky. You don't know what is happening next. You need to be sure of your life, your income and everything that is happening for people might not be able to respect or be around your presence for that long if you're
not financially stable.
Seek for financial security first before anything because that is most important thing to do so work on your finance before you can work on your relationship because when there is finance everything becomes easy and you can set your own boundaries and set. That's the standard to your own taste.