Good afternoon friends.
Today I just happened to have a fantastic situation. Which made me think. That's the truth, after all, someone who was very clever and wise many, many years ago said. "Accidents are not accidental". From time to time there are such unique and amazing events, meetings or stories with me that I just cannot doubt that fate exists (I cannot unequivocally state that it exists or, conversely, that it does not exist, then I share with you my thoughts and my attitude to it, but, as they say, everything have own time, everything is gradually).
Today I finished with my own affairs and realized that I needed to start doing other things, I had to work and do some very important things. Usually, as I told you earlier, I just take it and do it. I am firmly convinced that, as my mom told me, when I did not want to sit down at the table: "Appetite comes with eating." I think that this is absolutely meaningless occupation - to seek inspiration, to wait for it. I know amazing rule: "The rule of five minutes". This is when a person does not really want to do something, but he gets to work for five minutes, is fully involved in the process. And after five minutes, he already plunges into the matter so much that everything is fine and throwing it is completely no desire. So I usually start what I postpone for a long time or something I do not really want to do.
But today, I somehow wanted to put things off for later, that's just how I wanted everything. I decided to go on my own. Rather, not even that I wanted to transfer them, but I just decided to go in a roundabout way, winding huge circles. Already turned to the destination and walked past such a snack, resembling a kebab. I told you already that I lead a healthy lifestyle, I eat right (quite sometimes allowing myself to eat some tasty food). And somehow it got me drifted there. I stopped in surprise, because nothing like it usually occurs to me. I think, okay, I come, take some water. Getting in. And I see the girl I saw last time a couple of years ago. I'm surprised, but I'm already smiling. I went to her, we started talking. In the end, I decided that I would order a bun for water. We sat down together, started talking. I look at the time and I understand that it's time to go, it's time.
And then a person enters our room. And we have three girls. And he starts talking to us, for no reason. He asked me to drink coffee, I agreed. And you know, I now have a very interesting friend from whom I learned the information that I really needed and I could not find it anywhere. How it works?
And such stories, especially in recent times, I can tell a lot. For example, in the last month this is the seventh such situation. The Seventh
I sincerely believe that people who came into our lives and left some trace in it does not come accidentally. I do not believe in fate, that she is known and describes our whole life from birth and the first breath until her death. In no case. But I believe that there are people who came into our lives in order to teach us something, give us something and take something from us. Perhaps to show us our fault or to check. I sincerely believe that such amazing meetings are not accidental.
There is a theory that claims that before dying, we drank from the cup of oblivion and reborn, and before that we agreed who would come into our lives and what we would teach each other. This teaching claims that we are reborn and for life we need to go through some lessons that those people help us to go through, which eventually come to our lives. I think that many people have heard about this hypothesis. This is what I believe.Because I have no other way of explaining why these people come to my life and how, we are at one time and in one revenge and what exactly we are forcing us to begin to interact. When I think how many RANDOM events had to happen to me, that I was just "here" and exactly "now," I just can not believe that this is all by accident.
This theory has one more therapeutic effect. Since this person was sent to me by fate, it means that it cannot be that I chose the "wrong" person, it's just that I had to meet with him at some time in my life. So we couldn’t pass by each other, not then. This idea helps me not to be sad about my actions, which may have had a negative impact on my life, but at the same time they brought me an unforgettable and very necessary experience.