MIS GRANDES SUEÑOS
Feliz y bendecido dia a mi comunidad de motherhood , estoy feliz de regresar con un nuevo tema esto es muy personal me pasó en la noche de ayer y pensé en que tenía que contarles.
tengo varias noches hablando con mi hijo de 11 meses, antes de dormirnos aunque el siempre se duerme mientras hablamos pero yo siempre le digo que quieres que te DIGA un CUENTO O UN CHISME? SI QUIERES UN CHISME RIETE Y SI QUIERES UN CUENTO ABRÁZAME Y SIEMPRE TERMINA RIÉNDOSE O SEA ES CHISMOSITO MI BEBE JAJA.
Ayer le pregunte y no le conte el chisme de los tres cerditos que era el que le tocaba le conte el chisme de los grandes sueños de mamà y creo que lo tomo tan enserio que no se movió escuchó muy atento, no se empezó a reír.
Bueno empece contándole a mi hijo que antes de que él naciera yo siempre quise una casa grande donde su papá y yo íbamos a tener un pastor aleman o un pitbull entrenados para que nos defendiera, le dije que siempre quise una cocina super moderna donde yo pudiera hacer mis tortas para la venta y las de mis futuros hijos. le conté que después que el nacio a mi jamas se me quitaron las ganas de tener mi casita y con el dedito fui dibujando en el aire le explique que ahora tengo las ganas de luchar por tener una para que el tuviese un super cuarto y todo lo que el quisiera siempre y cuando se portara bien y ayudará a mama.
Le conté sobre mis sueños de ser una profesional el no quedarme atras por que queria demostrarle a el. que no es un obstáculo para que su mama sea grande al contrario es mi motivación y mi inspiración diaria para hacer las cosas en mi dia a dia .
Le dije que otro de mis sueños era tener un gran negocio donde èl sea el que me ayude, que yo sabía que èl me iba a salir bien trabajador y que me iba apoyar en todo incluyendo mi negocio de comida rápida y de obviamente de mis tortas y pasapalos.
le comente que mi sueños era viajar muchísimo así como en un momento yo lo hice, le dije que quería llevarlo a margarita y que amara volar así como su mama lo amo desde la primera vez que se montó en un avión, y que me dijera MAMÁ QUIERO SER PILOTO Así como yo quiero ser aeromoza. y no les puedo negar que ahora estoy llorando amigas porque eso lo dije yo cuando me monte en un avión por primera vez me le acerque a mi padrastro y le dije PAPÁ QUIERO VOLAR SIEMPRE YO QUIERO SER AEROMOZA PERO TAMBIÉN QUIERO SER COMO TU UNA GRAN INGENIERA EN SISTEMA . Le dije a nahel que a mi no se me ha quitado las ganas de nada a pesar de que èl haya nacido y que se que no es fácil pero yo se que el me va ayudar en muchas cosas.
Le dije que asi como yo tenia esos sueños, también tenia uno que era darle una familia a èl una base ética, y con valores para que el se pudiera defender en su vida. pero más que todo mi sueño principal era tenerlo a èl y que dios me lo premió por que me ha hecho muy feliz y suficiente.
Por último que vi que se estaba durmiendo le dije Nahel mama te ama tanto y que creanme amigas, nahel no dejó que terminara la frase y se volteo y me abrazo. Y no solo eso me dijo MAMÀ se acostó en mi pecho y viendome se quedo dormido.
Aunque seamos mamàs no nos quita soñar, emprender, ni mucho menos seguir siendo mujer. Somos madres si pero antes de ser madres somos mujeres soñadoraS.
Y eso nos hace diferentes.
Creo que uno de los motivos de que le hable de mis sueños a mi hijo es por que queria de supiera que es normal que uno tengas ambioses en la vida que uno quiera ser grande aunque el aun no lo entienda por que es un bebé siento que algo le quedó en su subconsciente.
Motivemos a nuestros niños, a soñar a imaginar, a plasmarlo en un papel pegarlo en la pared para que los visualice antes de dormir, enseñemosle en pensar siempre en grande y no minimizar lo que sienten ni lo que quiereN hacer.
Lo que nosotros hacemos por ellos con amor , ellos NO LOS DEVUELVE Y lo hacen por nosotros con mucho más amor.
SOY MAMÀ, SOY SOÑADORA, SOY VALIENTE, SOY LA MAMÀ DE NAHEL
MY BIG DREAMS
Happy and blessed day to my motherhood community, I'm happy to be back with a new song. This is very personal. It happened to me last night and I thought I had to tell you.
I have several nights talking with my 11-month-old son, before we go to sleep, although he always falls asleep while we talk, but I always tell him that you want me to TELL you a STORY OR A GOSSIP? IF YOU WANT A GOSSIP, LAUGH AND IF YOU WANT A STORY, HUG ME AND IT ALWAYS ENDS UP LAUGHING, I mean, it's a gossip, my baby, haha.
Yesterday I asked him and I didn't tell him the gossip about the three little pigs that was his turn, I told him the gossip about mom's big dreams and I think he took it so seriously that he didn't move, he listened very attentively, he didn't start laughing.
Well I started by telling my son that before he was born I always wanted a big house where his dad and I were going to have a trained German shepherd or pitbull to defend us, I told him that I always wanted a super modern kitchen where I could make my cakes for sale and those of my future children. I told him that after he was born I never lost my desire to have my little house and with my finger I was drawing in the air I explained to him that now I want to fight to have one so that he would have a super room and everything that he wanted as long as he behaved well and helped mom.
I told him about my dreams of being a professional not to be left behind because I wanted to show him. that it is not an obstacle for her mother to be great, on the contrary, it is my motivation and my daily inspiration to do things in my day to day.
I told him that another of my dreams was to have a big business where he was the one to help me, that I knew that he was going to be a good worker and that he was going to support me in everything, including my fast food business and obviously my cakes. and snacks.
I told him that my dreams were to travel a lot, just like at one point I did, I told him that I wanted to take him to Margarita and that he would love to fly just like his mom, I loved him since the first time he got on a plane, and to tell me MOM I WANT TO BE A PILOT Just like I want to be a flight attendant. And I can't deny that now I'm crying friends because that's what I said when I got on a plane for the first time I went up to my stepfather and told him DAD I WANT TO FLY ALWAYS I WANT TO BE A FLIGHT ATTENDANT BUT I ALSO WANT TO BE A GREAT ENGINEER LIKE YOU IN A SYSTEM JUST LIKE YOU. I told Nahel that I have not lost my desire for anything despite the fact that he was born and that I know it is not easy but I know that he will help me with many things.
I told him that just as I had those dreams, I also had one that was to give him a family with an ethical foundation, and values so that he could defend himself in his life. but more than all my main dream was to have him and that God rewarded me because he has made me very happy and enough.
The last time I saw that she was falling asleep I told her Nahel mom loves you so much and what do you think friends, Nahel didn't let me finish the sentence and she turned around and hugged me. And not only that, mom told me, she lay on my chest and, seeing me, fell asleep.
Even though we are moms, it doesn't take us away from dreaming, undertaking, much less continuing to be a woman. We are mothers yes but before being mothers we are dreaming women.
And that makes us different.
I think that one of the reasons that I talk about my dreams to my son is because I wanted him to know that it is normal for one to have ambitions in life that one wants to be great even though he still does not understand it because he is a baby I feel that something remained in his subconscious.
Let's motivate our children, to dream to imagine, to put it on paper, stick it on the wall so that they can see it before going to sleep, let's teach them to always think big and not minimize what they feel or what they want to do.
What we do for them with love, they do for us with much more love.
*** I AM A MOM, I AM A DREAMER, I AM BRAVE, I AM NAHEL'S MOM ***
