TOXIC PEOPLE :
are those individuals maybe your friends or family members that are abusive, not supportive, those people bring you down more than up. toxic people are judgmental and emotionally unhealthy for anyone.
Toxic people are everywhere, in your school, it can be your teacher, a family member, you can find them in the church and mosques they are all over the place.
I will be sharing with you some of the attributes of toxic people so that you can easily identify them and help yourself by avoiding them.
THEY'LL MANIPULATE YOU:
this is extremely widespread in departments or connections where the equilibrium of strength is out. Harmful people have a way of sending that vibe that you owe them something. they also have a way of taking from you or hurting you then bolstering that they were doing it for you.
THEY MAKE YOU PROVE YOURSELF TO THEM:
They'll put you in a position where you have to choose between them and something else. And you'll always realize pleased to select them.
THEY NEVER APOLOGIZE: they will lie before they apologize, they will even twist the whole story, and retell the way it happened. they never accept they are wrong.
THEY WILL LEAVE A CONVERSATION
UNFINISHED: they won't pick their calls, they won't respond to messages you might find yourself wondering in your head, guessing about the status of the relationship wondering whether you have done something wrong, or have hurt them.
Any people that truly love you will make out time for you.
THEY'RE JUDGEMENTAL
they make you feel not important and less relevant. the best thing to do for yourself is void this kind of people, avoid them. Understand your uniqueness and originality. And stay clear from bad energies.
What you have to do is avoid every negative vibe, either from someone or an environment.
Anything that will tamper with your emotional health, and self-esteem, male healthy relationships with people who will understand you without judging you.
Stay positive!!
Maintain healthy relationships!!!
You are the best!!!
To your intentional development, let me know your take and how this has affected you in your previous relationship with others.
I can't do this! The word that has truncated destinies, and rendered many stagnant in life. You try to convince yourself that you are unable to breakthrough through the wall of stigmatization, but you know, something inside you tells you that you can, but how you keep asking?
You feel so afraid about what people might say concerning your journey to the fulfilment of Destiny, hence you compromise and betray your purpose of existence to fit in, to a society that doesn't care about their successes or failures.
I can't do this! You keep making excuses; I am too small, I don't think am good enough to handle this, why not give it to Mr A or B?
You neglect and ignorantly look down on your inner strengths while giving room for self-judgement, self-criticisms and self-analysis. the world lures you to develop the desires to catch up with the latest trends and expectations of this society, instead of the desire to bring out your ideal self, but surely your hearts and minds have not forgotten their purpose of existence and you too knows that well.
Listen!
There is so much of yourself that you haven't discovered, two years ago I never knew that I could write this well it never for once crossed my mind, but today I keep evolving in this field to something thrilling and amazing.
Before now, I use to be shy and afraid, especially amid new faces or a large crowd. I couldn't express myself or my feelings but I was willing to do the work but now I can do all things to Christ that strengths me. they are stories to tell, for others to believe in the unseen abilities inside of them.
Hear this!
No man is an island! no man has created a carbon copy. We are God's masterpieces, we're not just humans, but humans after God's resemblance.
When you understand what that means, you'll realize the depth of greatness that resides inside you are infinite. You and I have strengths and gifts hidden inside of us, but it will be impossible to manifest the hidden strength if you do not work with the ones you have now.
Don't wait till you are given the whole world before you think of utilizing what you have to impact, start with the little that you have to cause positive manifestations. Your God-given gift is expandable, it is elastic, it can not expand if you don't use them. You cannot utilize the gifts you have if you believe you don't have them, or your inner crit.
First published on Read.cash. 👇
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