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You feelings about things happening in life are affected by your perceptions. Take for instance when you were a child whenever they want to cut your hair you cry, but now you pay to get your hair cut. You saw napping as punishment, now you desire to nap.
To change your world you must change your perception first that's the most important thing. What you percieve to be bad might be good to others, if you can just change the way you see things. If you feel being successful is not for you then that will be, if you think working on a job is better than working and developing yourself then it will be so for you.
For you to change your world you must change your perception.