There are some words that work like magic that people underestimated their usefulness, words like this are very essential when we are communicating as their failure to use them at the appropriate time can cause one more harm than good.
There are two magically words that we never think deep to understand their gravity. Yeah... I mean gravity. one can say it does not have weight but sincerely they do have weight in the mind of the listener.
The two fantastic words I want us to explore their usage and I want everyone to imbibe and cultivate the habit of using them are:
I am sorry
Thank you
These two words are very essential when we are communicating with both family and non family members.
As little as these two words are they can make or mar someone. Let pick these words one after the other
I AM SORRY
Saying I am sorry doesn't really mean you have hurt someone or do something bad to them as so many believe this is the only time words like this should be use.
This world can be use in two different contradictory ways.
i. It can be use when you realised that you have actually did something wrong to someone. What kills a man in using this words when they are wrong is ego, which in an another word we may call it pride and this is very common between boss and subordinate, parents and their children, elder brother or sister to the younger ones. It is really simple the fact that you say you are sorry after you realised that you have done something wrong to someone low to you or your standard foesnt mean you have belittled yourself. It will only make things to go on smooth between both party.
ii. It can be use when you are on your right. Oh... this look absurd and ridiculous. Yes it sounds ridiculous. But the truth is that for peace to reign at times when you discover that the person that hurt you does not want to acknowledge this. You just have to say "I am sorry" so that peace can reign between both of you. Again this doesn't mean you don't understand what you are doing or you are a fool.
Irrespective of who is right or wrong we need to learn how to say we are sorry.
THANK YOU
Thank you is very easy to apply and it should be communicated anytime someone do us a favour. it should be mentioned or voiced out when something good is being done to us. As short as this phrase is, it has a lot of weight when you tell the second partner that has done something nice to you.
Thank you is a word of appreciation that we must learn to use in our everyday statement.
Thanks for reading