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In our life, we are connected with many types of relationships. Some relationships are of our blood and some we make after understanding. If we see, the relationships that we form after we are born keep on forming gradually, like we keep on growing after birth and we start understanding the society a little bit, then we recognize the relationship with our family members also. When we go to school, we get some good friends there, so we keep on forming relationships with them too and in this way, as we move forward, new relationships keep on forming and some relationships are also lost. Forming relationships is not a big deal, the biggest thing is to maintain the relationship properly, it is very easy that you can make 10 relationships in 1 year but it is not in anyone's power to make a relationship last for 10 years. If we look at today's generation, relationships last only for a few months and some people are so selfish that as soon as they get new and better relationships, they forget the old relationships. I have seen many people who form a relationship with you because they have some interest in you and as soon as their interest is fulfilled or they find someone else who can do the work they are trying to do with you, they throw you out of their life. This is a very sad thing because this thing is not right at all because there is no law for these things but if we look at it from the point of view of humanity then this thing is not right at all.
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I have also made many relationships in my life but I have never rejected any relationship in my life. Whoever rejects, rejects me and in the end I have to face problems. This happened about 9 years ago. I used to study in college for some time and after joining college, I made many new friends and I was feeling good because I had come so far from my home for the first time and my family was not with me but it felt good that I had made some friends. At that time there was a boy in our college who lived near my city and he was also admitted in my college, so I got to know him well and we both became good friends because we had to sit together in college and then in the evening we used to go together to play college games, even then we used to go together by the same bus.
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That boy was a little weak in studies, so he used to come to me for help and used to ask me to make notes and then he used to study from my notes. For about 2 years I had helped him a lot in studies because I used to understand things related to the course quickly and I used to listen carefully to whatever the teacher used to teach, that is why he used to ask me and sometimes he used to come to study with me. This continued till the college was over. After the college was over, his friend stopped talking to me and even if I used to call him directly, he used to ignore my call by making an excuse. I found this thing very strange, when he was less in person, he used to roam around me and ask me about everything, but I did not do this then but now it had made sense and he did not need me anymore, so he was running away from me. After college, I came to know that two of my friends had gone to another city in search of a job. I requested them to accommodate me in their room because I also needed a job and I was also searching for a job. I talked to them a couple of times and they first said let's see and then refused outright. I didn't understand why they did this. I felt very bad about this because they took me along whereas I think if I were in their place, I would never have done this because whatever problem they had, they and I could have solved it together. But refusing outright is not the mark of a good personality because they didn't even disclose any reason to me.
Then from that day onwards, I also stopped talking to him much and I did not talk to him at all because this thing hurt me a lot and I was also very angry because I never behaved like this and I tried to adjust as much as I could but when someone does this, it hurts us deeply because in reality, this thing is absolutely wrong and I never like such people who stop talking to you after getting their work done and when their turn comes, they clearly refuse you for the work.
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