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Laughter, fun and frolic always goes on among friends, if your special friends are with you, then you can make any kind of joke with them. When we meet new people or we are among those people with whom we are not very familiar, then there we remain a little serious and at that time we have to think before talking whether this thing is right or not, because many times it happens that we say something which is not meant to be bad and they take the joke too seriously.
So in such a situation, we joke at least and keep serious behavior. Many times it is also seen that we are among our close friends and there we make some joke but someone from the group takes the joke very seriously and then the matter increases here.
Today I would like to tell you about a similar incident that happened to me in which my joke was taken very seriously by a person .This is about the time when we used to study in school, at that time we have passed 10th class and went to class 11th and before class 10th all our friends used to play in free time but when we went to class 11th we felt that we have grown up and after stopping playing, all our friends used to sit in a group and used to laugh and make joke.Sometimes some friend told some funny incident and sometime some friend would make joke on some random friend, we used to spend the whole lunch time like this. I also used to joke a lot and all friends were very old friends so we never thought that someone would feel bad about our jokes.
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This is about the time when we had come to school after completing our summer vacation and on summer vacation we had gone to play with some friends, one of our friends was Rahul. Although Rahul used to study with us for the last many years but his nature was a bit strange and during summer vacation he also came to play with us, we were sitting in the ground and all our friends were telling about their vacations, so we Jokingly started talking about the cricket match there, then it happened in that match that Rahul's got 3 chances of batting in the match and in all the three chances, he used to get clean bowled in the first ball. So all the friends were joking a lot on this matter and I also used to make joke about this moment, so I randomly commented that Rahul has scored a hat-trick this time, Rahul should be awarded man of the match.
After that don't know what happened was that Rahul suddenly became very angry and lashed out at me there. And he started abusing me and suddenly his mood became very serious and he started coming to beat me. I could not understand why this happened because it had happened many times before that we used to joke a lot. Often we used to play matches on Saturdays, many times I used to play with very bad performance, then at that time he also used to make fun of me and used to make fun of all the people, then we never used to show such response on him like that he reacted but he had crossed all the limits, don't know what was going on in his mind, but he had taken this very seriously.
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Then the next day morning when all the people were sitting together and Rahul was not there then all the people agreed that Rahul did not do right and then from the second day he started making distance from us on the way and he used to be no longer our friend. He did not sit together during Lunch or free time.
We started having fun again. Actually the thing is that many times we lose the balance of our mind due to which we did not think what would be the difference.
If a person is joking about something then he should also know how to tolerate joke and how to react on jokes, because Rahul used to joke with us many times, but we did not give him such a reaction, on the contrary, we used to start joking with him, but he didn't like this and took too much serious after this incident and he lost many of his close friends because then many friends have starting talking rarely to him very and then he moved away from our group and started going to another group.
Laughter joke is a very important thing in our life, we can also call it an essential supplement for our health, because according to today's time there is lot of stress, pressure, work load , then laughter and joke should be a very important activity because somewhere these things release our stress and makes us feel good and brings a positive energy in our body, so in such a situation I would say that sometimes it happens that we take something more seriously.Wer should think that If anybody is joking with you, then you can also joke with them, it becomes equal, but getting serious about something and reacting to it is absolutely wrong.
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