Getting through some life scenarios can be a little difficult at times. The manipulations and confusion that comes of it, the unexpected situations that shows up. The unaligned plans that we have to battle with. Yet you still can’t figure out what the next day will actually look like.
That’s a mystery. Though there might be some signs that will show how it might turn out to be, but where is the guarantee? Many good beginnings that doesn’t end well, and many scary beginning that have happy ending. So who are we to decide?
Today i was so pleased to have come across a family member i have been longing to see over time. Though it’s not a physical meetup, but few years now he went inactive on all his medias that you can hardly get in touch. I dont know why. All my efforts reaching out came out unproductive. So at some point i took a break.
My mind might be longing to get in touch, but the fact that i know reaching him is an unending mission, i will try relaxing. My mind remained unsettled anytime i think about him. I just feel i could know how he is. Nothing much.
Today i was able to see him again after a long while. Though i can’t say much about what his life is all about. But seeing him brought some comfort to my mind. Yeah, he appeared fine and i truly hope he is doing fine too.
The saying that “20 friends can’t be together for 20 years” must not be a joke. No matter how long it is, how much you cherished eachother, someday somehow you get to go your separate ways and what will matter most at that point in time is the connections and bond you have built during those time together.
It should get stronger over time, and it might also get weaker. This is all down to the individuals, if the friendship remained mutual, then it might go a long way. But if it’s one sided, there is no assurance of how long it will go.
I am grateful for life, i know so far there is life then there is hope. Life can be so funny that sometimes you meet some people and you will never get to meet them again in a lifetime, and there are some you meet and after a long time of departure, you still find eachother again. So there is always a room to be grateful 🥹.
