At times I think evidence is just something that works hand in hands with results. The sad reality is that people don't truly care about your explanations, all they want to see is your results. You have nothing to show then you are as good as nothing to them. Even the littlest of them wants something to be offered in return.
It's been a long time since I made up my mind to reduce how often I have to keep explaining and explaining myself to people. In the end they will do what they want to do and I also have the choice of doing what I want to do too. Then in the very end, my results speak for me.
I already know it either way, if it's not negative then it’s positive. So I have nothing to be scared of. People will only listen to your success story. And yeah. Your success is what truly matters.
I was trying to get some stuff done a few days ago, and got entangled with mum at the moment too. She was just trying to help out of care and love. But to me, I was just getting distracted. I already got used to not explaining. So I didn't follow up with what she advised but did what I knew I should do instead. Was she happy? Not really.
In the end, I came out with an amazing result. Showed her and was wowed. I am so sure she would have realized why I didn't have to yield in the first place. I wasn't rude, but I let my results do the explanation.
My participation in the free writing prompt “”.
Using the Most Dangerous Writing App***
