As if we let a child is only dependent on his parents. He doesn't care how old they both are. He doesn't care that his father can no longer drive him like this. He does not care that now he has to support his parents.
He doesn't care if his parents need him anymore. It is so wrong that it makes children dependent on their parents even when they grow up. Children cannot imagine any work without them.
Children who depend on their parents in this way is very wrong, because parents need support now, not that they bring their children into the world to support them until they die.
Children who have reached this state, that they cannot live without their parents, their parents also have a big role in bringing them to this state. Whether they admit this mistake or not.
I have also seen such children who are trying to fulfill the expenses of their parents and siblings through hard work and difficulties.
Apart from this, they spend the best hours of their lives in hard work and not playing. They also drop their studies.
People who depend on their parents find it very difficult to build self-respect in their lives. There is nothing in people's hearts for those who are dependent on their parents, have been dependent on their brothers all their lives.
Rather, he who does not depend on his parents and becomes their support, takes care of his younger siblings as well, his words are listened to with full trust, he is given importance everywhere.
Then those who are dependent on others lose their courage, they don't work hard. They cannot do any kind of difficult work, they find even simple work difficult. They get into big trouble.
Now it is the case that the remedy is that the older brothers and parents should never let the younger ones depend, but tell them from the beginning the importance of hard work, tell them the importance of helping others, doing their own work.
Tell the importance, tell the importance of being a support to parents, prepare them for such purposes. At the same time train them by giving them responsibilities, make them accustomed to hard work, they will prove to be very valuable in the future.
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