#neoxians

For most of my twenties i was moving fast enough that i did not have to be in one place long enough to examine it. Always something next. Another goal, another plan, another thing to work toward that kept

I went to a wedding a few years back. Beautiful by every visible measure. The photos looked extraordinary. Every detail considered and executed. The couple glowing. The guests genuinely happy to be there

I used to think that by a certain age you arrived somewhere. Not perfection, just a settled version of yourself that had most of the important questions answered. The career would be clear. The values