Yes, you are expecting too much. Sorry, that came out harsh.
I think a lot of people love the social side of Steemit but let's be real - even more people are here just to make money...
That's what happens when you tell people that they can make money by posting and then send them to the Trending page with articles making hundreds of dollars. One of the entrepreneurs I know did exactly that and now he is trying to make money here by automating everything. Even the comments. He doesn't see the value in creating relationships here unless the people are whales...it's kinda sad because I also love the interaction. I might like it even more than actual posting.
I guess you should just find a handful of people and bond with them. In real life, people also don't immediately build relationships, it takes time...
Anyway, say it out loud and move on, it's not worth to be too pissed off about things you cannot change ;)
RE: It’s About Relationships Stupid!